***QOTD, Wednesday, 3-23-2011***

Okay so I have a fun yet personal question today. Recently FH and I have been like an old married couple, lived together for 4 years now so it's like we are.... Anyhow, our 'love' life has been lacking and neither of us really knew what to do about it. Well, his dad came to visit this week and when he was upstairs tucked in for the night we started to fool around. We made out for like an hour which obviously led to more. It was amazing, I felt like a teenager again sneaking around behind my parents back... So this brings me to my question.....


What do you and FH do to keep the passion in your relationship alive? Please share....I'm sure others can learn from you sex kittens!!!

um... my fiance lives in England, so I can't say this really applies towards us. But I'm looking forward to some answers

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Posted by Mel-N-Az 2011 um... my fiance lives in England, so I can't say this really applies towards us. But I'm looking forward to some answers

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Actually I disagree, having a long distant relationship takes alot of work to keep the romance alive. How do you stay connected from so far away?

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Posted by Jennielee15

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Posted by Mel-N-Az 2011

um... my fiance lives in England, so I can't say this really applies towards us. But I'm looking forward to some answers

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Actually I disagree, having a long distant relationship takes alot of work to keep the romance alive. How do you stay connected from so far away?

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We skype A LOT (which sometimes gets... fun )and talk on the phone at least twice a day. He is normally my wake up call around 7am and then we talk before I go to bed which is around 10:30pm. With the time difference, he is normally leaving for work when I wake up and then he wakes up at like 3am his time to talk to me. I feel so blessed to have him becuase I've tried waking up to talk to him and I haven't been very successful.

We mostly talk about our future together. It helps to feel closer and that the end is near... I think that fact that we laugh about everything keeps it light and not so dreary. His accent helps we never fight partially because of the accent... I just melt when I hear him talk

It does get hard and there are times when we doubt how much longer we can do this, but the end is SO close and we know it will be worth it in the end

Thanks for being interested and listening to my long rant

OMG My FH and I just had this discussion. We have been together for 6 years and have a 2 1/2 year old. Lately love life has been a little slacking. After work, taking care of the baby, wedding erronds and cleaning, you often forget about the other stuff that matters like Sex....LOL.

He often jokes that I go to sleep in my grandma pjs and not the sexy little numbers I used to put on before...LOL.

I think the key is to take time out to have with each other, do date nights, cuddle while watching tv, spice things up and if possible take mini moon weekend vacations when things get a little slow....

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Posted by Mel-N-Az 2011

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Posted by Jennielee15

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Posted by Mel-N-Az 2011 um... my fiance lives in England, so I can't say this really applies towards us. But I'm looking forward to some answers

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Actually I disagree, having a long distant relationship takes alot of work to keep the romance alive. How do you stay connected from so far away?

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We skype A LOT (which sometimes gets... fun )and talk on the phone at least twice a day. He is normally my wake up call around 7am and then we talk before I go to bed which is around 10:30pm. With the time difference, he is normally leaving for work when I wake up and then he wakes up at like 3am his time to talk to me. I feel so blessed to have him becuase I've tried waking up to talk to him and I haven't been very successful. We mostly talk about our future together. It helps to feel closer and that the end is near... I think that fact that we laugh about everything keeps it light and not so dreary. His accent helps we never fight partially because of the accent... I just melt when I hear him talk It does get hard and there are times when we doubt how much longer we can do this, but the end is SO close and we know it will be worth it in the end Thanks for being interested and listening to my long rant

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Love this!

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Posted by Cataverri We have been living together for 2 years and I think our 'love' life is still fun. Somtimes we go out for drinks and come home and do 'fun things' or I give him massages. Little things like that. Before I leave the house somtimes I leave a sticky telling him how I love him. Etc......

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I used to leave notes but then I started to resent the fact that he never reciprocated. Haha! He is clueless!

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Posted by Lana and Johan OMG My FH and I just had this discussion. We have been together for 6 years and have a 2 1/2 year old. Lately love life has been a little slacking. After work, taking care of the baby, wedding erronds and cleaning, you often forget about the other stuff that matters like Sex....LOL. He often jokes that I go to sleep in my grandma pjs and not the sexy little numbers I used to put on before...LOL. I think the key is to take time out to have with each other, do date nights, cuddle while watching tv, spice things up and if possible take mini moon weekend vacations when things get a little slow....

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Date night is definitely key!

Haha love to hear these tips because FH and I are like 80 year olds. We are ALWAYS too tired!

Here's my tips... not that i am any kind of sex guru (although i did win most likely to post about sex LOL)but you asked...

-i leave dirty post it notes stuck to his computer or in his wallet.... i always get up before him so its fun when he finds it and sends me a text about it

- send an email telling a story.... make it up... make it good... he will go crazy!!!!!

-Dirty texts are fun too.... dont need to be too graphic just fun for the imagination

-talk dirty in bed.... or while you're watching TV... just whisper something in his ear

do something that will completely surprise him.... when you come home or when he comes home... walk up to him push him against the wall... kiss him passionately... and enjoy your night :)

Sex life whats that....we have been together on and off forever literally we have a year and a half year out and work oppisite shifts so our son doesnt go to a babysitter

Our sex life is kind of non-existant, we take it whenever we can which is rare