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QOTD: What are your plans for after the big I-DO?

Original post by Sandradv121

If you could look into the future, what would life be like for you and FH? How many kids, where are you living, are you working, etc? What are your plans?


FH and I planned on having kids right away (depends on this stupid economy), and he wants to help me pursue my dream of owning my own boutique. FH wants to live in Massapequa, and is currently looking for a split (under 4). I asked him if I could get an infinite FX after the wedding and he said we will have to see because we might be riding our bicycles around for a while ( please don't let us be in debt!).

And FH wanted me to stay home and raise our kids, which is cool, I could use a break from the 9-5. Instead I will be on call 24/7 with little FH's running around, screaming that they want food.

Lord knows whats really in store for us, but I am sure that it be one hell of a ride. Or I might hurt him first, who knows
deanna225 Posted:

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life would be really great. i want 4 kids and we would have a house where he lives now in middle village queens. i really don't wanna work but know i will have to so i will stay working. our plans would be to haveour kids grow up in a loving family and home.

LanaB Posted:

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After our wedding day, the only goal we havent accomplished is to have kids. Everything else we have already. Education, jobs, nice cars, big house (that we bought about a year ago, we decided to do that first since it was a good time to buy), so pretty much the only thing thats left is our wedding and kids that we want to have right away because when we get married its gonna be 5 years since we are together, so I deff want to have kids :)

amarra121 Posted:

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after the big i do. FH and I would like to start having babies right away. We will probably be living in the middle section between his parents and mine. Both of us will be working full time. Hopefully he will own his own company by that time. But whatever it is it will definitely be an adventure ... it always is
NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Okay after the Big I-Do, me and FH are going to try for kids immediately. I am a bit older than most of you....so you know the biological clock is ticking...

We hope to buy a home/condo within the first year of marriage. We plan on having two kids. I plan on being a working mom. I hope with my MBA, I can move up the corporate ladder, so I will need to juggle kids and a career. FH is retiring from one job in like 3 years and will then working full-time at his other job.

I think once we are in the real retirement years, we might move to Vegas. We love it there.
SummerBride10 Posted:

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Save money...hopefully buy a house!! Work hard and save more money. Then, have little babies. I would like 4...FH thinks I'm outta my mind lol, so maybe 2 or 3.

lilpiggy742 Posted:

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i still have to go back to school, but the program is only 6 months long so thats not a big deal. Id like to start having kids maybe a year after marriage. While id like to stay on long island, i dont know if that will be a possibility. Im thinking about working part time aftre having kids as well, so i dont feel im missing out on them, but also feeling like im doing something with myself.

LaurenJosh Posted:

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I hope to get a teaching job. Fh will hopefully still be doing what he loves (chef) but getting paid more. Hope to have 3 kids (FH wants 2 so we'll see...) Hope to be living still here on LI near friends and family.

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