QOTD.....11/29/08

krislee316 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 10:35 AM

QOTD.....11/29/08

Hi girls so today is my first QOTD and I have come up with something that will make us all think a little....

If you HAD to change one thing about FH what would it be? And if he had to change one thing about you what do you think it would be?

For me I would change the fact that sometimes he is selfish and stubborn, I know thats who he is but sometimes he just needs to listen to the woman hahahahah

for him he would probably change the fact that I am messy and that I overreact alot.

ttdiff11 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 10:40 AM

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i HATE that he smokes! and for me he would prob say that i overreact too lol.

meara Posted: Nov 29, 2008 10:41 AM

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ahh - I must be uninspired today b/c for him all i can think of is a) that he had a better knee (he suffers from knee pain and can't always be as active as he/we like) b) that he wasn't so hard on himself when things don't go exactly how he envisions

now for me - he would probably say neater - I'm not messy but I do tend to leave things around in my wake!

GT143EA Posted: Nov 29, 2008 10:43 AM

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I would say I would make him less selfish.
He would say I need anger management

geegee827 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 10:48 AM

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He definitely needs to be less stubborn!

He would think I need to be less sensitive.

PROBM Posted: Nov 29, 2008 11:02 AM

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Posted by ttdiff11

i HATE that he smokes! and for me he would prob say that i overreact too lol.

exactly the same!

gina409 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 12:32 PM

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i would change about him his road rage..i hate it....he would def change about me the fact that im tooo sensitive..i take everything to heart

JamieAnt06202009 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 12:36 PM

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I would also change FH's stubborness. He would change me leaving water bottles everywhere lol it drives him nuts.

jenn4214ever Posted: Nov 29, 2008 12:40 PM

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I would have to agree with ttdiff11, I hate when FH smokes - he smokes all around me and I can't breathe!!

And with me, I would have to say that I look into things too much - I make a bigger deal with things then I should be.

coldasice217 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 01:37 PM

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I would change his eff you I'll do what I want attitude. He's incredibly stubborn and selfish in that respect, and he doesn't care if it affects me at all. For example, I asked him not to play hockey today because he messed his back up last week and was miserable, and we're having our e-party tonight, so I didn't want him to hurt himself for the party. The response? Eff you I'll do what I want. He's currently out there probably crippling himself.

FH would probably try to change the fact that I 'nag' him and want to do everything way in advance, and that I badger him. Which I do, but only because he puts things off, because, eff you, he'll do what he wants. It's such a vicious cycle!

MrsInglima Posted: Nov 29, 2008 02:53 PM

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I would change his temper and thus how he acts when he's angry. He tends to huff and puff like a little kid slamming things down etc. We're working on it.

If he could change anything about me...it would probably be my short attention span. Half the time he talks I have no idea what he's saying because I'm watching tv or on the computer or cooking or whatever else.

krislee316 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 04:27 PM

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Posted by MrsInglima

If he could change anything about me...it would probably be my short attention span. Half the time he talks I have no idea what he's saying because I'm watching tv or on the computer or cooking or whatever else.

Oh boy FH does this too it is horrible I have to get in his face and ask him for the 18th time and he's like what? I didnt hear you well if you pay attention for two seconds you would know I asked the same question 3 times And then of course I have my fun at times by asking him if I can go hook up with someone or some really off the wall question and he has no clue what I am talking about

GT143EA Posted: Nov 29, 2008 04:29 PM

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Posted by krislee316

Posted by MrsInglima

If he could change anything about me...it would probably be my short attention span. Half the time he talks I have no idea what he's saying because I'm watching tv or on the computer or cooking or whatever else.

OMG! My FH has ADD and when he's not on his pills forget it!

Summertimegal424 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 04:31 PM

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i would have to change his OCD -ness, make him a little more relaxed

and if he could change me, - make me cook and clean ( haha- never will happen)

Celeste617 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 04:59 PM

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I would want FH to be a little less sensitive. Sensitivity is hard to find in a man, but my guy has too much!

I think he'd definitely want me to become more independent - I don't drive and I don't really like doing things alone.

MrsInglima Posted: Nov 29, 2008 06:39 PM

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Posted by GT143EA

Posted by MrsInglima

If he could change anything about me...it would probably be my short attention span. Half the time he talks I have no idea what he's saying because I'm watching tv or on the computer or cooking or whatever else.

OMG! My FH has ADD and when he's not on his pills forget it!

Haha, sometimes I think I have ADD. I always feel so bad!

mf2009 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 06:44 PM

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Posted by coldasice217

FH would probably try to change the fact that I 'nag' him and want to do everything way in advance, and that I badger him. Which I do, but only because he puts things off, because, eff you, he'll do what he wants. It's such a vicious cycle!

That is what I think FH would want to change about me. He always thinks I am a nag but at the end of the day I am usually always right.

I would want to change FH's lack of urgency. Nothing is ever a big deal and he ALWAYS waits to the last minute to do everything and is always late for everything.

Dani777 Posted: Nov 29, 2008 06:47 PM

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Hmmm... This is making me think a bit... LOL

If I could chage one thing about FH it would def. be his sturburn-ness. Sometimes he acts like such a child just to get his way, yet it's something that I sometimes do love about him...LOL.

He would prolly want to change stress levels...LOL. He is always complaining that I'm waay over-stressed about everything, I just need to learn to just let things be. That'll be the day! HAHA

MrsList09 Posted: Nov 30, 2008 12:17 PM

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If I HAD to change one thing, it would be his sleeping habits. He's always tired! And if he could change one thing about me, it would be to tell him when something is bothering me as soon as it happens rather than letting it fester.