I <3 you girls ... this is the most amazing support system ever!!! God didnt bless me with a sister but I've seemed to find a ton of virtual ones!!! You ladies are the best!!!
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I <3 you girls ... this is the most amazing support system ever!!! God didnt bless me with a sister but I've seemed to find a ton of virtual ones!!! You ladies are the best!!!
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Posted by hiswifey2011
I <3 you girls ... this is the most amazing support system ever!!! God didnt bless me with a sister but I've seemed to find a ton of virtual ones!!! You ladies are the best!!!
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I'm so sorry you are going through this sweetie!!! It's so tough! I'm not sure what the comment was, but FH sometimes says things too, that are hurtful, though honest. He's recently lost a ton of weight and has gotten into really good shape, so he's been sort of pressuring me to do the same, which is hard since I haven't changed since we started dating! Same weight, same size, he gained and just now lost... My mom is also a serious hoarder so when I'm being messy he tells me I'm just like my mom... THAT KILLS!!! Especially since I know how easy it would be for me to turn into her with the messy-ness.
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sorry girlie... what really sucks is that you can never be hurt by someone you dont love because you wouldnt care...and this is why we are hurt by our loved ones
time heals all, and im sure it'll be okay, but i would defintiely have a talk with him and say you hurt my feelings when you said XYZ, or i feel hurt that you feel like XYZ because etc...you get the point.
often times i find that when my FH and I get into a fight, its because of a break down in communication, or a misunderstanding, or sometimes we dont put each other in the others shoes....it always helps to talk about it..hope it works out, but in the meantime heres some hugs!!
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Posted by carangel
sorry girlie... what really sucks is that you can never be hurt by someone you dont love because you wouldnt care...and this is why we are hurt by our loved ones
time heals all, and im sure it'll be okay, but i would defintiely have a talk with him and say you hurt my feelings when you said XYZ, or i feel hurt that you feel like XYZ because etc...you get the point.
often times i find that when my FH and I get into a fight, its because of a break down in communication, or a misunderstanding, or sometimes we dont put each other in the others shoes....it always helps to talk about it..hope it works out, but in the meantime heres some hugs!!
You are so right!!!! IT would never hurt so much if we didn't care so much.
Lana and Johan
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Are u okay? I think people think it is okay because the ones they hurt will always forgive and forget.
Please let me know if you need anything.
LoveyDovey
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time heals everything!
even if he meant what he said, he can still be sorry for hurting you
Im sure he didn't intentionally hurt you. Men don't think the same way we do and they certainly dont think before they say things.
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Cuz we care for them..... cuz our heart is in their hands..
