Query for All - Small Dilemma

October Bliss Posted: Apr 07, 2006 10:00 PM

Query for All - Small Dilemma

FH's best man started discussing the bachelor party. He wants FH to pick two weekends that are good. He wants to take him to AC, and needs options b/c of hotels etc. The choices are the weekend OF my birthday (Sept 16-17) and the following weekend, (Sept 23-24) OR the two weekends immediately proceeding the wedding (Sept 23-24 & Sept 30, Oct 1).

Now, knowing the BM the way I do, I'm not comfortable ok'ing the bachelor party for the weekend immediately before the wedding, BUT if I don't then there is a chance FH won't be around for my b-day.

If you were in my shoes, which two weekends would you pick????????????????

Maybride519 Posted: Apr 07, 2006 10:03 PM

Re: Query for All - Small Dilemma

I would pick the weekends before the wedding. It would be nice if he was around for you Birthday. As long as it isn't the night before the wedding, it should be ok.

chapel06 Posted: Apr 07, 2006 10:18 PM

Re: Query for All - Small Dilemma

I would pick the weekends before the wedding. You'll probably be so busy taking care of last minute things, that you wont miss him as much. But I think you will def. miss him on your birthday.

scappy123 Posted: Apr 07, 2006 11:01 PM

Re: Query for All - Small Dilemma

I agree, I am sure you would rather have him there for your bday, and everyone is right, you will be busy tying up any loose ends and last minute preps