My fH was invited to a wedding in July. The thing is that we weren't planning on inviting him to the wedding. Not for any reason other then FH isn't close friends with him. So if we go to the friends wedding, are we obligated to invite him to ours? It is kind of a weird situation.
No, you're not obligated. You could always say you didnt have the money or it was just family or whatever if he asked.
I would probably invite the friend if they invited me to their wedding. JMO
If I responded yes and went to their wedding then I would invite them to ours. If I responded no then I wouldn't invite them.
You're never under any obligation to invite anyone. I think it's hard to feel like you might hurt someone else's feelings, but it's always important to attend to your needs first. That's just my opinion though... or you can play it by ear, see how close the relationship feels as you're sending out the invites...
Posted by RadioLau
I would probably invite the friend if they invited me to their wedding. JMO
if i was invited to thiers i would probably invite them to mine just out of obligation more or less
Posted by BrideChrissy
If I responded yes and went to their wedding then I would invite them to ours. If I responded no then I wouldn't invite them.
If I was invited to their wedding I would invite them to mine, whether or not I choose to go to theirs.
Posted by marcandjoanna
You're never under any obligation to invite anyone. I think it's hard to feel like you might hurt someone else's feelings, but it's always important to attend to your needs first. That's just my opinion though... or you can play it by ear, see how close the relationship feels as you're sending out the invites...
Posted by BrideChrissy
If I responded yes and went to their wedding then I would invite them to ours. If I responded no then I wouldn't invite them.
