For those of you who did Pre Cana or are being married by a religious official (dont know if thats the correct wording, but you get my drift) did they tell you that you couldnt have sex from the day you met them until your wedding day???
Nope. That never came up.
See..I dont get it. we met up with our Pastor a mth or so ago and he told us that we couldnt be intimate until our wedding day...I just found it a bit strange....hes Baptist by the way..
Pre cana for us was more about us as a couple. They focussed on things that affect you as a couple in life and how to become stronger as a couple. I have to say that pre cana was really informative. If I was told that I could not be intimate to my wedding day I would definitely think that was strange.
Exactly! the sessions def. took place around issues that affect married couples i.e. financial problems, children, jobs, big decisions, communication etc... we talked about all that..but then he asked us to remain 'pure' until our wedding day...I dunno **shrugs shoulders**
Posted by Soon2BMrsMunzGunz
Pre cana for us was more about us as a couple. They focussed on things that affect you as a couple in life and how to become stronger as a couple. I have to say that pre cana was really informative. If I was told that I could not be intimate to my wedding day I would definitely think that was strange.
Posted by billandme
Ours told us that the church would 'prefer' it if we weren't intimate prior to the ceremony (from our first meeting with him, to our wedding day). I thought my Fh was going to fall off his chair![]()
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We did however 'stay away from each other' for a month prior and that was good for us................![]()
Posted by Dee606
hmm... I've never heard of that before. Mine never even brought up the subject.
I wouldn't worry about it b/c how would he even know?![]()
they didn't really talk about that
We were told in pre-cana (or at the FOCCUS meeting, I can't remember which) that it's 'suggested' that we refrain from having sex from that point until after the wedding. The priest never mentioned anything about it at our meeting though.
Posted by Strings22
No there was no memtion of that...bascially with our Pre Cana the church had 3 different couples from newlyweds to 50yrs of marriage talk to us about marriage and etc... the only thing that came up that I thought the Preist was going to have a heart attack was when one couple turned about and said if you feel that a big fight is about to happen between you and your partner.... strip down naked and then try fighting most likey you'll try not to laugh more than trying to pick a fight.![]()
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it was so funny especially the face the priest had ....wish I had a camera
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No, they never said anything about it. We just finished it up today as a matter of fact.
Posted by Strings22
No there was no memtion of that...bascially with our Pre Cana the church had 3 different couples from newlyweds to 50yrs of marriage talk to us about marriage and etc... the only thing that came up that I thought the Preist was going to have a heart attack was when one couple turned about and said if you feel that a big fight is about to happen between you and your partner.... strip down naked and then try fighting most likey you'll try not to laugh more than trying to pick a fight.![]()
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it was so funny especially the face the priest had ....wish I had a camera
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no it was never brought up...
Posted by bettybcafe
For those of you who did Pre Cana or are being married by a religious official (dont know if thats the correct wording, but you get my drift) did they tell you that you couldnt have sex from the day you met them until your wedding day???
