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Did anybody's FH get a case of cold feet?
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nah, no cold feet for my FH. I just don't see that happening either. Sometimes he almost seems more excited about all this than I do, which is crazy because i'm pretty darn excited!! lol.
I'm surprised more people haven't responded to this thred though. I would think that there would be at least a few of our guys getting cold feet out there. Doesn't mean they're necessarily re-thinking the marriage in general, just getting a little nervous maybe.
How about you? Any cold feet for your FH... or you?
I'm surprised more people haven't responded to this thred though. I would think that there would be at least a few of our guys getting cold feet out there. Doesn't mean they're necessarily re-thinking the marriage in general, just getting a little nervous maybe.
How about you? Any cold feet for your FH... or you?
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not mine... he would actually like to get married tomorrow and skip all the planning and waiting !!!
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Not mine either...
When he proposed last december he was sooo upset that I said we wouldn't be able to do it in 2008...HAHA. I still don't think we can afford April, but oh well now. HAHA![]()
When he proposed last december he was sooo upset that I said we wouldn't be able to do it in 2008...HAHA. I still don't think we can afford April, but oh well now. HAHA
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in the very beginning yes... like a month or 2 into the engagement... everything settled down though ![]()
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so far no. he's excited and will text me out of the blue things like 'i cant wait to call you my wife' or babe, we're getting married!!'
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Not mine. I was looking for 2010 wedding and he wanted 2009. So we booked 2009!!! He is sooo excited that we booked our hall ony 2 weeks after our engagement.
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Not my FH he jokes when we discuss this because since he is basically footing the bill....we both know he will be at the alter.![]()
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Not one bit but he was very happy to have all stress of the planning over with!!
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Posted by KimiDanny1010
not mine... he would actually like to get married tomorrow and skip all the planning and waiting !!!
Needless to say, having a long engagement wasn't an option for us. He originally wanted it in October or November (he only asked me in July). When i pushed it back to at LEAST the end of December (for the sake of money and planning) he was soo disappointed. lol. But it's worth the wait.
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Me... All the time, Him....Not yet
but we still have a whole year!
but we still have a whole year!
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I'm not too sure many people on this board would post publicaly 'O YES MY HUBBY IS TRYING TO RUN FROM ME'...but that doesnt mean by any means that everyones life is perfect 'not MYYYYYYYYY husband he is SO EXCITED!' You never know what goes on behind closed doors....Im sure that MANY men and women experience cold feet in one way or another right before the big day... In fact, most couples i know fight a lot, break up or get close to breaking up RIGHT before, its the STRESS!!! you are not alone, im just not sure this is the board that you will get a lot of support in that area. I wish you two the best.
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I agree with the poster above. . also a lot of the cold feet that guys/girls experience may not be shared so one thing is that if you are talking about it with FH, it obv means you have good communication so that's a plus. And also indicates that he takes in seriously (and please no one assume that I'm trying to say if your FH is always postivie - he doesn't!!!) I would just keep talking and figure out where it is coming from. .
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I'm not too sure many people on this board would post publicaly 'O YES MY HUBBY IS TRYING TO RUN FROM ME'...but that doesnt mean by any means that everyones life is perfect 'not MYYYYYYYYY husband he is SO EXCITED!' You never know what goes on behind closed doors....Im sure that MANY men and women experience cold feet in one way or another right before the big day... In fact, most couples i know fight a lot, break up or get close to breaking up RIGHT before, its the STRESS!!! you are not alone, im just not sure this is the board that you will get a lot of support in that area. I wish you two the best.
I totaly agree with you.. Im sure my Fh gets cold feet sometimes i know i do. Its only normal its a life changing decision and u want tomake sure its the right one~! We both love each other very much and in the end we will be walking out of the church together but everyone is entilted togive it aloittle thought...
