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BellaChandella Posted:

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Hello girlies, haven't been here since before my wedding.

But, I was just thinking, I went to 2 weddings before mine in August, and I have only recieved one. And the one I didn't get anything from, I'm kinda upset about because we were IN the wedding. No thank you, not even a picture.

How long is it for thank you's?

Or are these people just being rude?
TrueLoveIn2008 Posted:

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You have up to a year to send thank yous --- i think anything within 6 months is perfectly reasonable.

yelley77 Posted:

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totally unrelated to the question, but, I LOVE your hair. you look HOT!

BellaChandella Posted:

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

You have up to a year to send thank yous --- i think anything within 6 months is perfectly reasonable.




A year? Wow.. lol

Okay, then maybe I have to wait. lol the wedding was in May, that's why I'm wondering.

BellaChandella Posted:

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Posted by yelley77

totally unrelated to the question, but, I LOVE your hair. you look HOT!




lol, thanks honey, i donated about 12 inches..
lillprincess54 Posted:

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they say you have up to 1 year to mail them out, but i think most people send them out within 6 months.


i was a freak , i sent mine out i think less then 3 months after my wedding
BellaChandella Posted:

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Posted by lillprincess54

they say you have up to 1 year to mail them out, but i think most people send them out within 6 months.


i was a freak , i sent mine out i think less then 3 months after my wedding




lol i plan on having them out asap, cuz then i'd just forget and i don't want to be remembered as the 'couple' who never sent thank yous.

cause i've heard stories!
KarinAmanda Posted:

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Chand we want WEDDING PICS

you look gorgeous and yes, 12 months is the 'rule'

Bride908 Posted:

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I would love to have mine out already. I got married a month ago but Im waiting on my photographer to get me my pics back so I can pick my thank yous.

I feel guilty that its been so long but Im pretty sure its the norm.
Kimbalina Posted:

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I hate to say it,,, but I had a friend who didnt get all of her's out till over a year after due to some photog problems

BellaChandella Posted:

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Ahh, okay.

I didn't know there was a 'year' rule. I figured when you got them, you send them out. lol

The one wedding I got the thank you for already, she was a TP bride too!! hehe..

I haven't got my wedding pix yet, TP is my photographer so, he's got more important things like his new lil baby!! hehe!!


I'll get pix on here, I have to take them off other peoples myspaces and such. lol
lila Posted:

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A year might be the rule, but a lot of people expect them earlier. My parents are complaining about not receiving a thank you from a wedding they attended in June... but they also never got a thank you for the shower gift, and engagement gift.

I got all of my thank yous out by the one month mark (except no-gifters and vendors, still have to do those) and a lot of people appreciated that. I'd say 3-4 months is standard, up to 6 months is OK but anything longer than that and I'd wonder... hmmm, where's my thank you! just being honest
BellaChandella Posted:

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Posted by lila

A year might be the rule, but a lot of people expect them earlier. My parents are complaining about not receiving a thank you from a wedding they attended in June... but they also never got a thank you for the shower gift, and engagement gift.

I got all of my thank yous out by the one month mark (except no-gifters and vendors, still have to do those) and a lot of people appreciated that. I'd say 3-4 months is standard, up to 6 months is OK but anything longer than that and I'd wonder... hmmm, where's my thank you! just being honest




That's exactly what I was thinking.. lol oh well..
nifheim Posted:

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yea as everyone said its a year - got mine out on our one month ann - i wanted it done though.

jennandrolo Posted:

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i still havent sent mine
lila Posted:

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i think the one year rule is an outer boundary... like with wedding gifts that same rule exists, however, most people dont wait a full year, and even though it might still be 'proper ettiquette' people will probably think 'grrrrrrr am i even going to get something?' with respect to gifts or thank yous once it gets closer to that 1 year mark

RockysGirl Posted:

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knowing me, i'll probably be getting my thank yous done within those first couple weeks after the honeymoon. If I stall on things, i'll never do it. And that's exactly how i was with wedding plans. Everything needed to be done NOW. lol. No more waiting!!!

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