Alright...I need your opinion ladies.....I am making a list of people for the wedding and I am stumped about one person. My brothers mother in law. My mother says no(she doesn't care for her) but I am not sure. She is usually at all the family functions. What do you think? BTW she is kind of a pain and tends to be a bit embarrassing.
MrsDrinkh20
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I say if she is at family functions than she should be invited to the wedding. jmo
Kunelsky
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I say definitely YES! U want to maintain a nice relationship with in laws even if they're not directly ur in laws. It deff can't hurt it's a nice gesture
rae234
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That's what I told my mother....
rae234
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I mean she's at family functions because she is my nephews grandmother...but I see her alot.
springsandra
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Your brother's MIL sounds like a bit of a stretch to me. Are you close with your SIL? Have you been to your bro's MIL's house? How long have they been married and she been a part of the family?
I thought for a brief moment about inviting my FSIL's MIL and then realized that it would be way silly since she's nothing to me at all even though we've met a bunch of times.
If you're inviting 300 people and she'd just be one more person it's one thing, but if you've got a tight-knit family and keeping your list on the smaller side, I say it's fine not to. Just my opinion...
NikkiR515
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If it were me, I'd invite her but that is JMO...
For me just about everyone on my side of the family is embarrassing so what is one more person!
debzy
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Posted by MrsDrinkh20
I say if she is at family functions than she should be invited to the wedding. jmo
I agree. No point in burning that bridge now. And it would be especially inappropriate to not invite her if she's invited to the other family functions. Don't worry about her being embarrassing - she'll just be one of many guests.
dazies1011
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Posted by MrsDrinkh20
I say if she is at family functions than she should be invited to the wedding. jmo
I agree
Jennmolloy
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Posted by MrsDrinkh20
I say if she is at family functions than she should be invited to the wedding. jmo
ITA
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Posted by Jennmolloy
Posted by MrsDrinkh20
I say if she is at family functions than she should be invited to the wedding. jmo
ITA
me too
Amberrenee6705
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I say yes, she should at least be invited, only to maintain a good relationship in the family. I have a few of those people too....so I know how you feel. In the end though, you'll feel better that you did!
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Posted by NikkiR515
If it were me, I'd invite her but that is JMO...
For me just about everyone on my side of the family is embarrassing so what is one more person!
i think inviting her would make your bro's life a little easier too
GT143EA
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Im not inviting my sisters MIL but we arent close. It depends how close you are to her
Celeste617
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If she is usually at the family functions, I'd say that inviting her would be the nice thing to do. We invited FH's brothers MIL, FIL & SIL because they are a close part of the family. They didn't expect the invite but were thrilled and 2/3 will be coming.
