Question about BM from a groom...

bogiedmb41 Posted: Jun 14, 2004 12:47 AM

Question about BM from a groom...

I just wanted to pose a question to all the ladies on this board because you are always so helpful to my FI...I have 3 brothers and I don't know how I could choose one over the other to be the best man, we are a very close family and I can't see myself asking just one...I was thinking of having all 3. What do you ladies think of this? good idea, bad idea? What should I do!

james'pokey Posted: Jun 14, 2004 09:24 AM

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I am having 2 maid of honors because I could not choose between my best friends. i think that it is okay to have all 3.

kiwijonze Posted: Jun 14, 2004 09:31 AM

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My FSIL's husband had his two brothers and my FH as 'Best Men'...all 3 gave brief speeches, one after the other. It was very sweet to have each of them honored and didn't seem weird at all. They, and the maid of honor, were the only people in the bridal party.

bogiedmb41 Posted: Jun 14, 2004 10:16 AM

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Thanks for your help, I'm going to go with all 3, it just doesn't feel right to choose one when we are all very close...I feel much better now

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Jun 14, 2004 10:23 AM

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Good for you!!!! Go with all three....anything goes these days. We are having two couples of honor because it was as hard for us as well!

TeReSa8A Posted: Jun 14, 2004 02:40 PM

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Go with all 3 of them, you sound equally close, and I think it's nice that you can't choose just one. They will be so happy, good luck to you

GoingNutty Posted: Jun 14, 2004 04:35 PM

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It's a nice idea... My FI has three brothers as well, but he picked his younger brother because they do more together than he does with his other brothers.

Another idea you could discuss together is taking turns being each others best man, like #1 has #2, #2 has #3, #3 has #4 and #4 has #1... just an idea :)

Good luck :)
Jennie