Question about children in bridal party with Poll.
Okay, I had posted a while back that we lost our flower girl. We had decided to not have one. However after discussing the topic again this weekend, I need a little feedback…
My parents are divorced and both remarried, and I have stepsiblings. On Dad’s side there is 1 boy (13) and on Mom’s side is 1 boy (17) and 2 girls (14 and 12). I have asked the boy on Mom’s side to be an usher, he said yes (going to ask the boy on Dad’s side the same thing this weekend). I asked the girls to hand out programs and petal cones at the church. My mom suggested my step-Dad’s niece (who is a petite 8), when I mentioned this to FH, he asked about having my youngest step-sister as the flower girl, but I think 12 is too old.
My question is, would it be “wrong” to have my step-dad’s niece as the flower girl and “promote” my stepsisters to junior bridesmaid? I ask if it’s “wrong’ b/c my parents don’t speak (they don’t even live in the same time zone…literally) and I would hate for my Dad to think I was favoring her side. Though I am going to ask my aunt (Dad’s sister) to do a reading.
We do have a ring bearer, my 5 yr old nephew.
Thanks…sorry if I seem a bit nuts with this!!! (I am PMSing)
My parents are divorced and both remarried, and I have stepsiblings. On Dad’s side there is 1 boy (13) and on Mom’s side is 1 boy (17) and 2 girls (14 and 12). I have asked the boy on Mom’s side to be an usher, he said yes (going to ask the boy on Dad’s side the same thing this weekend). I asked the girls to hand out programs and petal cones at the church. My mom suggested my step-Dad’s niece (who is a petite 8), when I mentioned this to FH, he asked about having my youngest step-sister as the flower girl, but I think 12 is too old.
My question is, would it be “wrong” to have my step-dad’s niece as the flower girl and “promote” my stepsisters to junior bridesmaid? I ask if it’s “wrong’ b/c my parents don’t speak (they don’t even live in the same time zone…literally) and I would hate for my Dad to think I was favoring her side. Though I am going to ask my aunt (Dad’s sister) to do a reading.
We do have a ring bearer, my 5 yr old nephew.
Thanks…sorry if I seem a bit nuts with this!!! (I am PMSing)
