I found out last night that my bridal party is not getting along right now and are fighting over the b-party. Without getting into the details there are expectations of some to pay one amount and others think its too much and want to keep the budget a little lower.
Do you know how much it is costing for those going to your b-party? And if you can let me know where you went that would be great!
I am so stressed out over this I can not sleep!
Rosalind_75
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i didnt have one but im planning one with my sil moh for her bparty.
i plan on contributing $200-$300
i know thats a lot but i love my sil to death and want her to have a kick asss time
MongieToBe
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7 of us are goin to Ocean City, MD for 2 nights. We have 2 suites and it's costing $140 total per girl for the 2 nights. Then there's gas money, food, drinks, etc. so I'm not really sure in total. Guess I'm not really much help! GL tho!
vv117
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we're going out east for the weekend. for those who are staying at the hotel for the weekend it will be $400 and for those who are just coming in for saturday for the wine tour it's $150. it's a good option bc people can choose what they can afford.
but fyi...people will choose the $150 option regardless of what they can afford.
Lsorrent
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I think mine was around $200 per girl for the limo, Awesome 80's prom, and food. Then of course we bought drinks and then went to sing karaoke.
SoontobeGallagher
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We are going to Vegas. I told the girls if they can't swing it then that's totally fine. We were going to another one here like go into the city or like go to the boardy barn or something but this has been such a headache that I don't even want to do it unless one of the girls want to plan it.
elp6421
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I am not sure how much the girls are paying for mine, but I can share with you how much I am paying for b-party I am planning.
100 for limo 100 for drinks. ect. 50 for stuff for bride
so around 250.00
celticbride
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We are going to Ocean City, MD too. The girls are getting $300 pp for the 35 Pass Bus and 3 Condos. I think it will only come to $200pp but better safe than sorry and any money left over goes on Beer for the Journey!!!!!!!!!
AdriandSteve
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First, I think it was s*cky that you found out about the drama. This isn't something you should be worrying about. Second, no, I'm not sure how much each of my girls is paying but I know there is some drama with that too which I'm staying out of. I know the most I spent was.... maybe $300-$400 for a Bach party but we went away and I was the MOH. The other 2 bridal parties I was in I spent no more then $200 and even less in another.
Soon2bMrsH
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im not sure how much mine cost, but ive paid minimum 300 for every bach party i went on.
shelbylove918
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honestly it shouldnt be an issue that YOU have to deal with.. thats the exact reason I stood out of the planning for my bach party and IM the travel agent.. I picked a place that everyone could either go 1 night or 2 it was up to them and we are getting major hookups since its AC and we have people that go their and gamble all the time.. It worked out great for the girls and whoever couldnt afford both nts would just do 1.. thats all I know , not sure of the plans for the time we are there but every bridal party I was in we spend close to 300-500 for the weekend:) Thats including all spending money and accomodations.. HTH
Linzee636
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My party is in NYC, and my MOH laid out how much each 'activity' will cost:
plus drinks and stuff like that, but if girls don't want to stay at the hotel, that could change, or if they don't want to do mani/pedis earlier, they could skip that and come later... we'll see!
runnerbride1023
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Thanks girls! I have decided that both sides are crazy! I am actually such a mess for hearing all of the drama. I am so upset.
Based upon everything you have said i think all of my friends are crazy! This is really helpful!
Gerbera
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Posted by AdriandSteve
First, I think it was s*cky that you found out about the drama. This isn't something you should be worrying about. Second, no, I'm not sure how much each of my girls is paying but I know there is some drama with that too which I'm staying out of. I know the most I spent was.... maybe $300-$400 for a Bach party but we went away and I was the MOH. The other 2 bridal parties I was in I spent no more then $200 and even less in another.
I totally agree on all points.
We're all adults they should settle this between themselves. This hsould not even have been brought to your attention.
That being said, now that it has i understand how you're stressing about it.
