My dh cousin is having a baby shower for her fourth child. A bit tacky, I know, especially since her other children are under the age of four. I will not be able to attend the shower. Should I still send a gift even if we will be giving a gift in a month when the baby comes?? I am not sure about the etiquette for a fourth shower.
She did have a shower for each kid. From what I understand, it's not just for family.
If you're bringing a gift when you see the baby, then that's all I would do. I don't think you should need to give a gift for a 4th shower. Let's face it, she has everything she needs. The idea of a shower is to start someone off on the right track, but I'm sure she has everything. This is just greedy!
Posted by marymoon
If you're bringing a gift when you see the baby, then that's all I would do. I don't think you should need to give a gift for a 4th shower. Let's face it, she has everything she needs. The idea of a shower is to start someone off on the right track, but I'm sure she has everything. This is just greedy!
gee.. i've never heard of a shower for each friggin' baby.. it does seem very tacky. get the new baby diapers. i'm sure he/she'll need 'em.
