Question about invitations...

My mom has a friend (her friends daughter is in my BP) and she also has three sons...I grew up with these boys, but we are not close...Only one of her sons I might like to have at my wedding...But even that is not so important to me...

I really don't like my mom's friends husband--nor does my mom's friend like him

Now...I am wondering...Am I entitled to not include his name on the invite? Can I put her name and maybe the one sons name?

What should I do???

I don't think you can invite someone without her husband...

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Posted by BMD'sPeanut

I really don't like my mom's friends husband--nor does my mom's friend like him

What should I do???

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(sorry, couldn't resist)

Honestly, I don't see how you can get around not inviting your mom's friend's husband . No matter what their relationship is, I think its proper to invite her with her husband. I think its even more important given the fact that their daughter is one of your BMs

Maybe your friends mom won't even take her husband to your wedding?

As for the son, how old is he? If he's older he probably should get his own invitation. I don't necessarily think you have to invite ALL the sons, though .. esp if your guest list is already growning in size, you have to limit it somewhere!

her husband is so rude!

they live on my block and he blatantly ignores me when he sees me...

he hasn't even spoken to me in like maybe 12 years.

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Posted by FeliciaDA



Maybe your friends mom won't even take her husband to your wedding?

As for the son, how old is he? If he's older he probably should get his own invitation

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My BM keeps saying that she can't see her dad coming to my wedding...I mean, really. It would be silly if he came!!!

I think what I will do is send it the 'appropriate' way...And put the word out that she is welcome to bring the one son instead of her husband...

Her sons are...24, 22 and 18 (or 19?) I would only really consider inviting the 22 year old one--but not with a guest