Question about monograms

I've read your posts and seen so many of you use monograms for menus, invites, programs and cocktail napkins.... whose initials do you use? I'm stumped and can't figure it out! lol

Here's mine and FH's initials and my married initials.... someone please help me and tell me which one to use on all the printed items?

Me now: AMP
FH: JMG
Me Married: AMG

Thanks!

It generally goes:

The first initial of your first name - the first initial of your married name - the first initial of your husband's first name.

In other words:

A G J

Got it - Thanks!