Question about Shower tact.

My FH's family had said to me this weekend that there is not alot of items on my registry. I told them I registered at two places. Then the subject changed very quickly and I didn't have a chance to tell them which two. I only put a few items from Macy's because my FH insisted that we register there. Most of the items are at Bed Bath and Beyond. The problem it that my sister waited till the last minute to start planning. I gave her the store cards for the reg to put in the invites. Then Macy's sent me smaller ones that I passed along to my sis. I think she only put the new Macy's card in the invites and not the BB&B cards.
I am not suppose to know when the shower is. Do I ask it the invites when out? Do I ask what went into them?
I think my sister might get pis*ed that I'm asking and put off planning again. What is a girl to do???

Sorry so long.

I would just asked if she included the BB & B registry cards in the Bridal Shower Invites. That's it.

~dancer~
charlotte