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Question about shower & wedding invites...

FutureMrsPD Posted:

Question about shower & wedding invites...

So my mom agreed to tell me the date of my shower....the only thing is that I'm mailing my wedding invites like 7 days before my shower. Is that OK? the shower will be exactly 2 months before my wedding but since my wedding is Columbus Day weekend, i wanted to send the invites a little earlier...what do you girls think? TIA!

wifetobe Posted:

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I think that's perfectly fine!!!

snwb08 Posted:

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my invites were out before my shower.... I sent them out the weekend before. It's totally fine

Dee0522 Posted:

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I know several girls who mailed their invites out before their shower. Some people don't have their shower until the month before the wedding so it is perfectly fine!

FutureMrsPD Posted:

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whewww ok! I thought i was going to have to make up all new RSVP's!!!

MrsD71208 Posted:

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IMO, I'd wait until the week after at least. People can't handle one RSVP, let alone two at once lol JMO

FutureMrsPD Posted:

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only problem with that is I already had the RSVP's made and it wont be enough time for them to RSVP if i send them out a week later...

Jenn04 Posted:

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Everyone should have rsvped for the shower by then. It should be ok.

But some people may say 'Oh wedding invitation already...we didnt even go to the shower yet?!?!' JMO.
Princess Cut Bride Posted:

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I don't think that will be a problem!

FutureMrsPD Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

Everyone should have rsvped for the shower by then. It should be ok.

But some people may say 'Oh wedding invitation already...we didnt even go to the shower yet?!?!' JMO.



thats how i feel also...but is it worth all the trouble to have my RSVP's re-printed? It will be like $150!! I just dont know if its worth it.
MrsD71208 Posted:

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Just mail the shower invites out earlier than you wanted to, so that there will be more time in between the arrival of both.

Future Mulligan Posted:

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i just received a shower invite and wedding invite like 2 days apart....i dont think its a big deal....

deb08 Posted:

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dont think you have to worry about it-

SoonToBeMrsScott Posted:

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I think thats fine

LeeLee111 Posted:

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Thats fine, I dont know when my shower is but the invites are going out May 19th which could be before my shower.

MSeed Posted:

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That is fine. My shower and wedding invitations are going out at the same time. Probably the same day.

Wifeynella Posted:

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its fine!! it used to be (a long time ago) held the week before the wedding so it's not too close

FutureMrsPD Posted:

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ok thanks for making me feel better!!!

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