Question about 'Thank you' ettiquette

BRod-Cheng Posted: May 16, 2006 06:16 PM

Question about 'Thank you' ettiquette

If you receive a 'no' response witha gift, do you send the thank you now, or do you wait until you have the official wedding photo thank you?

MrsWmson2be Posted: May 16, 2006 06:25 PM

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For those who sent gifts but weren't able to come, I'm mailing them the 'thank you' with our wedding photo.

kristina Posted: May 16, 2006 07:18 PM

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I would send it right after you recieve the gift. then you can send them your picture with a little note.

MissingTheBGene Posted: May 16, 2006 07:32 PM

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I sent a thank you right away and once I get my thank yous from our photographer, I may send that as well. It's nice to send a thank you to acknowledge the gift. If it's a check, if you hold onto it, it may mess up their account.

anglbyme Posted: May 16, 2006 07:59 PM

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I would send one after I received it and also after my wedding include them in receiving thank you photo card.

kissy27 Posted: May 17, 2006 08:20 AM

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depending on how early the No response came...If it was close enough to the wedding, I am sending a photo thank you

ewickens Posted: May 17, 2006 08:24 AM

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Send a quick thank you now and then after the wedding, make sure to send another thank you with the wedding photo.

NY031978 Posted: May 17, 2006 08:37 AM

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id send now...just so they know you got it! you dont wanna cash it and have them think wow arent they rude....not even a thank you! Then once you get your formal ones id send another saying something about how you wish they were there blah blah blah.....

hocus Posted: May 17, 2006 10:29 AM

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I think you should write one now -- it would be a pretty long wait otherwise.

CLMon7906 Posted: May 17, 2006 10:38 AM

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People coming and not coming have sent gifts already....and we definitely sent out a thank you already. If for no other reason than to have a few less to write after the HM, I suggest doing it now.