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Question for the Married Ladies

gabbie83 Posted:

Question for the Married Ladies

Ok I've been married for 2 days but I dont really feeel any different. I know he is my husband and im his wife. he calls me and says GOod Morning Wife its cute but as far as feeling differently at home or anything I dont really - I know we are & I'm happy

How did you all feel?
nifheim Posted:

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its been a month and still no diff. Just like when your dating honestly - i think it has to go with your situation prior the wedding. how long you have been dating, have you lived together, etc.

gabbie83 Posted:

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ok good because i thought i was different or something. we've been together for a year only but he moved in last summer, so its been almost a year but i honeslty feel like i've known him forever and ever!
Just making sure Im normal
missliss Posted:

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Exactly the same. Then again we've lived together, shared bills and expenses and bank accounts for over 3 years. So basically, we've been living as a married couple for over 3 years. The only thing that's changed is I have a little more bling on my finger and my last name.
040508Bride Posted:

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i feel the same. Just sad that its all over. I wasn't even nervous the day of, just wanted to party :)

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Im not married but im sure i will feel the same way! me and fh have been together for 7 and 1/2 years, so i don't expect to feel any different...it sometimes feels like we are already married!

gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by 040508Bride

i feel the same. Just sad that its all over. I wasn't even nervous the day of, just wanted to party :)



i know!! we just partied!!!!!!!!
gabbie83 Posted:

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Posted by missliss

Exactly the same. Then again we've lived together, shared bills and expenses and bank accounts for over 3 years. So basically, we've been living as a married couple for over 3 years. The only thing that's changed is I have a little more bling on my finger and my last name.



yeah exactly more bling on the finger
i dont even get a new last name, he took mine, so now im just MRS & my last name LOL
Yeah same here we've shared bank accounts and all that for the past year!
ArmyOfBabies Posted:

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I've been married 5 months and it feels no different.

korndoggie Posted:

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Posted by missliss

Exactly the same. Then again we've lived together, shared bills and expenses and bank accounts for over 3 years. So basically, we've been living as a married couple for over 3 years. The only thing that's changed is I have a little more bling on my finger and my last name.



Substitute 3 years for 2 years and I could have written this word for word.

When I think about it I smile because now he's my husband. We are now 'officially' a family, and that is very comforting.
gabbie83 Posted:

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it is that comfort level! that you feel WOW he is totallyyyy mine
DGoldfarb0776 Posted:

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Honestly I don't feel different. I got butterflies in my stomach when we woke up the next morning getting ready to leave on the HM and he leaned over, smiled and said 'Good morning Mrs. Bedrick' and I just recall how wonderful that sounded to me. I agree it's just a name change and a bit more bling on the finger. Also knowing that you're going to be together and that he is yours and you are his.

DH and I have been together almost 4 years- since we got engaged he unofficially moved in (he still had his place for family reasons) but we truly know and love each other.

We're just happy that we know that we're going to be together for the rest of our lives.
tlp123 Posted:

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I actually thought things would change too, but over 2 months now and it hasn't. I think we are happier, though. I know I am. I am hoping to be this happy forever.

I know things will change once babies come along though. Scary, but exciting.
DGoldfarb0776 Posted:

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Posted by tlp123

I know things will change once babies come along though. Scary, but exciting.



Oh yeah things will change once the kids come ..everyone has been telling me that!
kellybean Posted:

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Posted by ArmyOfBabies

I've been married 5 months and it feels no different.



thats cause you secretly beat your husband
GinaZ Posted:

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we have lived together since last May and have been married for 24 days. I dont feel very different. Im super happy though! And it feels a little different, but not as much as I expected.

nmagel Posted:

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No different. That's probably b/c we've lived together since 10/04. He is getting a big kick out of me answering my work phone w/ his last name, though!

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