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Question, I'm a bridesmaid in my bf's wedding

DanNette Posted:

Question, I'm a bridesmaid in my bf's wedding

But her sister is the MOH and younger. I wanted to suggest making my friend a 'Honeymoon' bag, where we (all the bm's) contribute essentials for the Honeymoon. Am I over stepping boundaries if I present this idea? Should I run it by her MOH and she if she likes it then present it to everyone. She is super sweet, but I don't want to take away from her role.

eelharas4700 Posted:

Re: Question, I'm a bridesmaid in my bf's wedding

im in the same position....i would say go for it. as a bridesmaid youre all on the same team. everyone has different ideas so put yours out there. since you are getting married too, im sure she can value your opinion!

SoulMates422 Posted:

Re: Question, I'm a bridesmaid in my bf's wedding

I'd give her the heads up and let her know that you want to make a suggestion to the other members

Chrissywish Posted:

Re: Question, I'm a bridesmaid in my bf's wedding

nope if you wanna do it go for it...and being that you are getting married and understand the process more (and older than she is) sometimes that wisdom is needed and its an idea she may love but would have never thought of....don't worry about stepping boundaries...if you are gonna throw it out to her first then you are just being a helpful bridesmaid and you know the world needs more of those
PegaLega Posted:

Re: Question, I'm a bridesmaid in my bf's wedding

Maybe just pass the idea by her, Im kind of in the same boat, not technically speakind. Im not a BM I am the bride and each and everyone of my girls wants to take control...which is totally fine with me

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