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QUESTION! Opinions needed!

FutureMcBride Posted:

QUESTION! Opinions needed!

so FH and I are having a bridal party cocktail party because we haven't 'officially' asked everyone yet (although they all know), so it's going to be around 20 people.. a friend asked if significant others are invited... I feel bad saying no is that OK t just tell her that we are trying to keep it just the bridal party? it's just that we have things planned for them and with boyfriends I think it would just be too much... thanks!

springsandra Posted:

Re: QUESTION! Opinions needed!

Are you paying for it? If you're hosting but not paying, it would be nice for you to let others bring their SOs. Honestly, I think it would be nice if you can swing it to let them bring their SOs anyway since they'd be bringing them to the wedding.

FutureMcBride Posted:

Re: QUESTION! Opinions needed!

Well it's at our apartment... so yes we are paying... it's not a big party or anything just appetizers and cocktails

5272012 Posted:

Re: QUESTION! Opinions needed!

Since you are officially asking them, i think its fine that you keep it just to bp.

would be nice to add them..but its fine if you dont, imo!
FutureMcBride Posted:

Re: QUESTION! Opinions needed!

thanks... I feel bad, but I think if it were me I would understand...

I am trying to imagine a friend asking me to be a part of the BP and having a party just for us and not bringing FH... I don't think I would care since it's technically a wedding event!

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