Question re: RSVP date is over can I

MrsCtoB Posted: Aug 14, 2009 10:20 AM

Question re: RSVP date is over can I

So I ALREADY know the answer to this question, but figured id ask anywayz: our response date was yesterday. (People really suck about send those already pre-postage-so easy a child could do it-just check off the box-and-slip into the mail box, cards.

So because it took people so long to respond, or not respond at all, we never got to send out invites to our B list which we obviously have room for now.

It's rude to send them now right? UGH This really stinks!

Also, as for calling people, anyone think that's weird? What do you say? Hi, you didn't respond to my wedding, what's your deal? You in or Out? I dont want to beg anyone to come to my wedding ya know, but i read somewhere that that's what your supposed to do. Hmm any advice would be helpful! lol

FutureMrsG Posted: Aug 14, 2009 10:45 AM

Re: Question re: RSVP date is over can I

We called or emailed all of the people who did not respond by the RSVP date. As for inviting people after the RSVP date it is up to you. We invited two people after the cutoff and they understood. We did not include the response card. They were friends of FHs he hand delivered them and the people told him yes or no. Our situation is a little different b/c EVERYONE knows my FH does things at the last minute!!

MrsCtoB Posted: Aug 14, 2009 01:24 PM

Re: Question re: RSVP date is over can I

I just got text messages from like 5 people saying they were coming and just sent the RSVP in the mail. so i guess we wont have room for anymore people after all! lol

gina409 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 02:44 PM

Re: Question re: RSVP date is over can I

Posted by MrsCtoB

I just got text messages from like 5 people saying they were coming and just sent the RSVP in the mail. so i guess we wont have room for anymore people after all! lol

thats great!!!!! isnt it sad that we really have to hound people