question .... whos with the bride when she gets ready

butterfly20 Posted: Oct 25, 2003 12:27 AM

question .... whos with the bride when she gets ready

at my house before the church... i know my family is there... if fh is getting ready at his parents house, is his mom suppose to be at my house with the rest of the girls?

jennbaby Posted: Oct 25, 2003 12:39 AM

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For me, it was me, my mom, dad, and BM.

His mom I saw at church.

kathleenmarie Posted: Oct 25, 2003 08:17 AM

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I think the parents, and the girls, but the mom doesnt go in the limo?

jw11897 Posted: Oct 25, 2003 08:42 AM

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I am having my parents and the girls and whoever else from my side of the family. I am getting a separate limo for my parents so it will be me and my girls in one limo and then my parents in another limo. The limo will then take my parents and his parents to the reception from the church.

monters Posted: Oct 25, 2003 09:09 AM

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my future in-laws are from out of state and will be with us...as well as my nana and bro from florida...so it will probably be a house full..and the BM's and dad.....but I think it will be nice!

pschica Posted: Oct 25, 2003 09:11 AM

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i am just going to have my parents and the bp girls...

Maribelle7777 Posted: Oct 25, 2003 09:29 AM

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Usually, no. It's more your family and your bridesmaids.

But if you want his mom there, you can ask her. But she might be too busy getting ready herself.

Maribelle7777 Posted: Oct 25, 2003 09:31 AM

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Posted by kathleenmarie

I think the parents, and the girls, but the mom doesnt go in the limo?

She can, but usually she gets out before you do because seh is seated by one of the ushers before the BM come in.

jenny2penny Posted: Oct 25, 2003 09:57 AM

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I have a similar concern. But a different situation....
I am getting dressed at FH sisters house:
me
my mom
my dad (will show up towards end of getting ready for pics)
my BMs (who are my sister and 2 FHs sisters)

I am having a hair & make-up lady at house.

This will be the 1st wedding for FH mom that she is not the bride's mom. In the past she was always their for make-up and hair. I have no idea if she is going to go to FSIL house to get make-up and hair done with us girls. Then I have no idea how she will get to the church,,she should arrive with FH dad.

I don't mind her there, she's great, but I hope she just comes to FSILs house for hair and make-up, then drives to her house to be with her son and drive with FFIL. (thank got I have 10 months until I need to worry)

(sorry so long)

Finally16 Posted: Oct 25, 2003 11:29 AM

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Great question- I was thinking of that myself.

My father, his wife and my sister live out of state. I'm sleeping at my FMIL's house and FH is staying at our apartment the night before.

As far as getting ready- I guess all the women will be there. I'll have my father and my close aunt come about a 1/2 before the photgrapher gets there.

Considering my relationship with my FMIL, even if I weren't getting ready at her house, I'd still want her to be wherever I'm getting ready.

butterfly20 Posted: Oct 25, 2003 11:35 AM

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hmmm...

well i know my mom is not coming in the limo, she will drive her car to the church so her and dad have it after the mass is over...

fh was asking me if his mom comes to my house cause i was asking him if i should pay extra and have a photographer cometo his house(more for his mom)... so he thought his moms suppose to be at my house with me(which i wouldnt mind)(my mom might be jealous but i dont care)

JodiBabe Posted: Oct 25, 2003 01:30 PM

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Truthfully......anyone the bride wants to be with her.

I had my MOH, my daughter (one on my BM) and my MOH daughter (she did my daughters hair and helped us all get ready)

sa070204 Posted: Oct 26, 2003 02:08 PM

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I am having my bridesmaids and my mother and father. My brothers will go dress at my FI brothers house. I think if too many people come it may get a little hectic