Question..if your parents are the ones inviting the guests on the invite..

sofreakingexcited Posted: Jan 03, 2009 04:06 PM

Question..if your parents are the ones inviting the guests on the invite..

does the return address have to go to them? I really want the responses to come to FH and I so that I won't drive my parents crazy everyday with calling them 4 thousand times to see if the mail came

coldasice217 Posted: Jan 03, 2009 04:08 PM

Re: Question..if your parents are the ones inviting the guests on the invite..

I'm assuming you don't live with them in this case...I think technically it's supposed to, but I wouldn't be too worried with it. We have it worded as together with their parents, but the RSVPs are going to come to my parents home, where I also live.

MakingofaMulligan Posted: Jan 03, 2009 04:11 PM

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mine were addressed to me, mainly because my parents live in FL

my Mom (aka Queen of Etiquette) checked with the woman (Princess of Etiquette) to double-check that this was acceptable and it apparently is ok.

edited - woman - lady who did my invites....

Soon2BMrsC09 Posted: Jan 03, 2009 04:14 PM

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my parents are doing 1/2 the wedding and they are divorced and FH and I live together - they are coming to our address

HappyBride22 Posted: Jan 03, 2009 04:14 PM

Re: Question..if your parents are the ones inviting the guests on the invite..

Maybe have it go to your address but with your parents names?

Soon2BMrsC09 Posted: Jan 03, 2009 04:18 PM

Re: Question..if your parents are the ones inviting the guests on the invite..

Posted by HappyBride22

Maybe have it go to your address but with your parents names?

our response cards are going to be addressed to 'The Future Mr & Mrs' with our address

sofreakingexcited Posted: Jan 03, 2009 04:20 PM

Re: Question..if your parents are the ones inviting the guests on the invite..

Posted by Soon2BMrsC09

Posted by HappyBride22

Maybe have it go to your address but with your parents names?

our response cards are going to be addressed to 'The Future Mr & Mrs' with our address

That's really cute! I think I'll just have them come to our address, but I'll just put my last name and then then our address (since my parents obviously have my last name as well) so that way it will look ok I think. Thanks!

megsher Posted: Jan 03, 2009 04:20 PM

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Mine are going to me b/c my mom doesn't want this responsibility, i.e. stress. And we live 5 hours apart so I couldn't just drive over to get them once a week.