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Quick invite question...

autumnbride10 Posted:

Quick invite question...

Our invite says our names and then 'together with their parents'...does that mean they helped pay...or is it just more like without them...we wouldn't be here? How do you interpret that?

deb08 Posted:

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i would say they are helping you with the wedding.

autumnbride10 Posted:

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Posted by deb08

i would say they are helping you with the wedding.



Financially?
Bride908 Posted:

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I guess people may think that they contributed financially. I used that on my invites and our parents didnt contribute. I also know a few other people who did this and their parents did not contribute..

emomma17 Posted:

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I am not really sure, I know that I did it the traditional way and neither parent helped us pay for the wedding, i just didn't want them to feel bad. It probably doesn't really matter either, lol.

jaep129 Posted:

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Usally it means they are helping you pay I think. FH parents are not giving us one cent but we put that b/c I feel its nice. Even if they are not giving us anything.

autumnbride10 Posted:

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I took it as...if it weren't for them, then we wouldn't be here. It's a celebration of them too. But FH thinks it will come off sounding like they helped pay for the wedding. They are helping in their own ways, but FH and I are paying for everything. Should I still use it?

autumnbride10 Posted:

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Posted by jaep129

Usally it means they are helping you pay I think. FH parents are not giving us one cent but we put that b/c I feel its nice. Even if they are not giving us anything.



That's how I feel, and who cares what people think anyway?
SoonToBeMrsSchombs Posted:

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I think it can be either one. We used 'together with their families' because each have daughters, and wanted everyone to be included.

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