Quick Question.....

The whole shower is usually a surprise but I know exactly when mine is (this saturday - eeeek ) and i even know what my favors are...cute little jewelry boxes!

while you are not really upposed to be involved I suppose it depends on wheter your friends/family stick to that. If you don't kno the date then you probably wont know the favor but if you're really that interested i;m sure theres someone you know who you can get to slip and tell you