raunchy QOTD..

ok back for more filth

since we r talking bout honeymoons and some say u r suppossed to save your self for marriage but lord knows i threw that one out the window years ago was fh your first? and if he was not how long down the list is he?

fh was not my first i had a bf from when i was 15 to when i was 20 so of course he was but fh and i got together few months b4 my 21st b day so u can imagine all the loving i had in between my list is short only need a few fingers to hold up my tally

I can't believe I am answering this.








He was not the first and he was #9.


ETA: I am in my mid 30's so I have had more time.

fh wasn't my first and I still dont know about his...I think i'd like to leave it at that since I'm still friends with one of my exes...

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Posted by CandB4604

Actually, yes - FH was my first :)

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We met young and we've been together for 6 years! :)

FH is my #7.. and I am his #7.. I guess 7 is our lucky number

well i think thats sweet

Here's a question I can answer for once!

FH will be, and I'm not ashamed in the least to say it. I know I'm the rarity nowadays, but it's something that I have stuck to, and I'm not going to claim to be holier than thou, but I know a lot of girls who talk the talk, but are hypocrites. So I feel really good about that about myself, so I'm proud to say it.

I'm not even a religious zealot or anything. I don't believe in BC, I'm scared to death of my mother, and I had a really bad experience in college before I met FH that pretty much just emotionally damaged me beyond repair. It's really hard sometimes, because when we have our problems, I feel that it's my way of keeping my distance, but I know that it's going to mean so much more, and FH really truly is wonderful, because he respects me so much. We've been together for over 4 years now, and he's been so patient and understanding with me. It will be 5 years and 1 month exactly on our wedding day. Most guys wouldn't put up with that for that long, and haven't, so I know that I complain and vent sometimes, but I'm truly fortunate in the things that really matter to have such a great FH

I'll get off my soapbox now

not the first...he is #8

but..when we got engaged we decided to wait until the wedding night..so its been almost a year without any! LOL i must say that at our age (31 & 350 i cant believe we were able to do it...or should I say NOT do it...but it truly has brought our relationship to a whole new level!

we were def NOT each other's first but I am 36 now and he is 37 so we had to get some practice in first - you know! I am glad he will be my last though b/c as they say practice makes perfect and I think we are good to go. .. .

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Posted by coldasice217

Here's a question I can answer for once!

FH will be, and I'm not ashamed in the least to say it. I know I'm the rarity nowadays, but it's something that I have stuck to, and I'm not going to claim to be holier than thou, but I know a lot of girls who talk the talk, but are hypocrites. So I feel really good about that about myself, so I'm proud to say it.

I'm not even a religious zealot or anything. I don't believe in BC, I'm scared to death of my mother, and I had a really bad experience in college before I met FH that pretty much just emotionally damaged me beyond repair. It's really hard sometimes, because when we have our problems, I feel that it's my way of keeping my distance, but I know that it's going to mean so much more, and FH really truly is wonderful, because he respects me so much. We've been together for over 4 years now, and he's been so patient and understanding with me. It will be 5 years and 1 month exactly on our wedding day. Most guys wouldn't put up with that for that long, and haven't, so I know that I complain and vent sometimes, but I'm truly fortunate in the things that really matter to have such a great FH

I'll get off my soapbox now

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i think s its great u stood up for what u believe in and never went against it..u should be proud and stand on that soapbox all u want girl!!!!!

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Posted by coldasice217

Here's a question I can answer for once!

FH will be, and I'm not ashamed in the least to say it. I know I'm the rarity nowadays, but it's something that I have stuck to, and I'm not going to claim to be holier than thou, but I know a lot of girls who talk the talk, but are hypocrites. So I feel really good about that about myself, so I'm proud to say it.

I'm not even a religious zealot or anything. I don't believe in BC, I'm scared to death of my mother, and I had a really bad experience in college before I met FH that pretty much just emotionally damaged me beyond repair. It's really hard sometimes, because when we have our problems, I feel that it's my way of keeping my distance, but I know that it's going to mean so much more, and FH really truly is wonderful, because he respects me so much. We've been together for over 4 years now, and he's been so patient and understanding with me. It will be 5 years and 1 month exactly on our wedding day. Most guys wouldn't put up with that for that long, and haven't, so I know that I complain and vent sometimes, but I'm truly fortunate in the things that really matter to have such a great FH

I'll get off my soapbox now

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No soap box!!! I admire you!! I even envy you!! I wish that my number was the same as yours!!

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Posted by coldasice217

Here's a question I can answer for once!

FH will be, and I'm not ashamed in the least to say it. I know I'm the rarity nowadays, but it's something that I have stuck to, and I'm not going to claim to be holier than thou, but I know a lot of girls who talk the talk, but are hypocrites. So I feel really good about that about myself, so I'm proud to say it.

I'm not even a religious zealot or anything. I don't believe in BC, I'm scared to death of my mother, and I had a really bad experience in college before I met FH that pretty much just emotionally damaged me beyond repair. It's really hard sometimes, because when we have our problems, I feel that it's my way of keeping my distance, but I know that it's going to mean so much more, and FH really truly is wonderful, because he respects me so much. We've been together for over 4 years now, and he's been so patient and understanding with me. It will be 5 years and 1 month exactly on our wedding day. Most guys wouldn't put up with that for that long, and haven't, so I know that I complain and vent sometimes, but I'm truly fortunate in the things that really matter to have such a great FH

I'll get off my soapbox now

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I envy that too! I wish FH was my first... but I guess its WAY too late for that!

#9

FH was not my first but was far down the list

He's not first.. but the only that matters After meeting with our pastor after getting engaged we took a vow to not have sex until our wedding. It's not too fun lol but it will be worth it

FH was not my first he was my 2nd and my best