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RD Guest List

oktropical Posted:

RD Guest List

Okay I have a question, if you have a flower girl and ring bearer...are you inviting them to the Rehearsal Dinner?? I know you are suppose to invite everyone in the bridal party but a part of me is second guessing it.

I have a flower girl (who is 9) and ring bearer (who is 7) both are my sister's kids (who is my Matron of Honor). I feel like if I have the kids there then I should invite the husband (since it's only my sister, him and the kids). Well then if I invite him what about my brother, whose fiance is one of my bridesmaids?? I feel like a snowball effect. Am I just thinking to much into this??

TIA!!!
kimmaymb20 Posted:

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I plan inviting all that are in the bridal party and their significant others its only fair since we are going to have a RD after the rehersal.

happychelle Posted:

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We are inviting our all members of the BP with a guest to the RD - except the Jr. bm, whose mom is going to just drop her off.

BriansWifey Posted:

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I would definitly invtie the flower girl and ring bearer and the husband....
In my opinion the entire bridal party should be included. I also invited the bridal party including a guest which I guess would be ur bro's fiance. But its up to u how many people and who u invite. If its a question of money and u can't afford it them don't invite them but I hope they wouldn't be offended... Hth....
Lsorrent Posted:

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Our entire BP is invited with their significant others, and my FG and RB's are also invited. You weren't going to invite your brother to the RD????



mosh424 Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent

Our entire BP is invited with their significant others, and my FG and RB's are also invited.







Same here plus all out of town guests
Jna2010 Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent

Our entire BP is invited with their significant others, and my FG and RB's are also invited.






saaaaaaaame as well as parents/siblings and out of country guests
20mrsc10 Posted:

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were doing aunts/uncles/gparents/bp + sig. other

for us its about 35 ppl
JAAMS Posted:

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we're doing immediate family & bp.. most of the children in the wedding + their parents are covered by 'immediate family' but those that aren't will be invited with their parents

ETA: and any significant others of the BP
jmgoncal Posted:

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We're doing the entire BP plus significant others, readers, parents and grandparents. I think you definitely need to invite the FG and RB to the rehearsal - if anything they are the ones who need it the most!

FallBride2010 Posted:

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I think it might be a bit rude to not invite your sister's husband or your brother. Personally, I would invite everyone with a date. BUT if you need to keep it down, I would at least include immediate family (brother, BIL)

Lu2700 Posted:

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Posted by kimmaymb20

I plan inviting all that are in the bridal party and their significant others its only fair since we are going to have a RD after the rehersal.



fh and i are planning on doing the same
Junebride2010 Posted:

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I think it would be rude not to invite your brother and bil

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