Ok, so with 12 days left my FMIL is making me crazy She made the arrangements for the RD after I told her where to go (FH and I love it) I said they have the best Chicke Francese, Well my FSIL just Emailed me the menu and NO chicken. Ok this might sound pety but, I dont eat Veal, or seafood she basically put everything she wants without even asking. And she knows FH doesnt eat certain things. Now this all comes after I left invites @ her house a couple of weeks ago and she took it apon herself to give them to people and then tell me after the fact. We are low on our min. but s#$t ask first. And now the inlaws want us to be at FMIL the next day @ 10am(wedding ends @ 1:30am) for breakfast and drinks.....YEAH OK And FH just laughs at the whole thing, Is it me? Sorry so long Jenn
pinkstar025
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ummm NO its not YOU!! Its YOUR day....and you do NOT have to go over to their house for breakfast....you go do what the two of YOU want to do...sleep in and get room service!!! as for the RD, can you change the menu ?? Are they hosting it..or are the two of you??
My FILs are hostig ours and went to several restaurants to try to pick one...and then took us out to the ones they liked best..and we all decided on it...... and I WILL be there decising on teh menu..b/c as YOU said..i loved our place b/c of the chicken (marsala tho) so it WILL be on that menu!!!
Good Luck with it all! Keep us updated!
Mrs.Z
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Posted by pinkstar025
ummm NO its not YOU!! Its YOUR day....and you do NOT have to go over to their house for breakfast....you go do what the two of YOU want to do...sleep in and get room service!!! as for the RD, can you change the menu ?? Are they hosting it..or are the two of you??
My FILs are hostig ours and went to several restaurants to try to pick one...and then took us out to the ones they liked best..and we all decided on it...... and I WILL be there decising on teh menu..b/c as YOU said..i loved our place b/c of the chicken (marsala tho) so it WILL be on that menu!!!
Good Luck with it all! Keep us updated!
No they are hosting it. I told FH to call place directly and change menu. THank god they did, There was not even a vegetarian meal, one of my BM is and no one thoght of that. THank god its almost all done with. Its only monday and I cant wait until friday.
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Thankfully you were able to change the menu! Did FMIL ask if this is what you both wanted to do the day after your wedding or is she demanding this? You should discuss it with FH and then FMIL and soon
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No asking, more like assuming. Im not doing anything the day after but sleep. She will just get over it.
