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RD who to invite??

RSD228 Posted:

RD who to invite??

Hey ladies,

so question for the RD do you invite the BP boyfriends or girlfriends?? FMIL is paying and not sure if this should be her choice?
MSeed Posted:

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We are inviting bridal party members and their significant others. For the kids (FG's and JBM) we are inviting their parents.

bluekat16 Posted:

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We're paying for it and we're only inviting bridal party and their husband/wife/significan't other and immediate family and the husbans/wives (parents, brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews).

Kimbalina Posted:

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I think it is a hard thing to say. Honestly it should be based on what the people paying for it want.
However it should be either all or nothing when it comes to dates
JMHO
emomma17 Posted:

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we are inviting our bridal party with their spouses/gfriends/byfriends if they have one, but maybe speak to her and see what she says, some people do some don't.

Espo22 Posted:

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we are inviting the bp plus their SO. Some are married, engaged, live with their SO and we know them well so definitely inviting them too. But some of our bp members are single so will attend alone. Then our 3 readers and their SO, and one of the readers we would've invited regardless bc they are fh's parents friends and are part of everything. Also one of the readers is my moms best friend and again i wouldve invited her regardless. Also rb and parents but the father is one of our groomsmen so the parents would've been there regardless. Also fg and her parents. Plus my grandmother

We are doing it on a thursday so wont have many OOT guests in yet, but if there are any they get invited too
RSD228 Posted:

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thxs ladies....when I counted it up the SO came to an extra 9-10 people....so I guess it isn't that bad...I will have to talk to FMIL, but wanted your thoughts!

Julybride08 Posted:

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Posted by MSeed

We are inviting bridal party members and their significant others. For the kids (FG's and JBM) we are inviting their parents.

same here
del Rio Posted:

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We invited the entire bridal party with there signifcant other and our immediate families.

Bride908 Posted:

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we are inviting the BP with their significant others and immediate family. FIL complained but I think it is rude not to..

Dee0522 Posted:

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Everyone is invited w/ their spouse/SO. FG & RB's parents are invited. And then parents, grandparents and siblings.

Wifeynella Posted:

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Posted by RSD228

Hey ladies,

so question for the RD do you invite the BP boyfriends or girlfriends?? FMIL is paying and not sure if this should be her choice?



we are inviting the immediate families
anyone in the BP with their partners (husbands/wives/gfs/bfs)
anyone with a role in the ceremony
wundmoretime Posted:

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I think it should be BPand their significant others and the parents.

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