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Re: annulment papers- I'm ok.... thanks for all of your fms and concerns!!

Original post by kdelace

Thursday was difficult, but quick.. The mediator was good about us signing and getting out of there as quickly as possible. It was a lot of signatures but other than that, husband and I did not speak a word to each other. He wouldnt even look at me. After all of the signing, he left right away while my cousin came in to sign an affadafit. It takes 3 months
for it to be official.

Once the papers were signed and we left, my cousin took me to Victory in Garden City where my sister, my best friends Aimee and Christine, my aunt (cousins mom who I am very close with) were there. Basically, half of my bridal party. We had a drink and hugged and talked. It was really nice to have that support there. It made the night a lot better.

my husband left me a nasty message after that, which again validates I made the right decision. He basically said I ruined his life an d he is going back to his old ways! Is he kidding? Its because he never got out of his old ways that I had no choice but to leave. It just proves he will always blame everyone around him but himself and will never change. Hes a liar and I am better off out of that lifestyle and atmosphere.

This weekend I have been preparing for Vegas. Thank god I am going away. A change of atmosphere. I went shopping yesterday for Vegas attire. I am looking forward to this mini-trip. It should be fun.

Thank you again to everyone who has been a constant support to me by posting ans sending fms. I promise nothing but good posts from now on. No more crying and tears... Life is too short. :)

Imagin916 Posted:

Re: Re: annulment papers- I'm ok.... thanks for all of your fms and concerns!!

You absolutely did the right thing. I think him leaving you that nasty message is your sign that he is not going to change, and that he cannot accept responsibility for his behavior. You will be so much better off without him. Good luck, and have a great time in Vegas!!
peabody Posted:

Re: Re: annulment papers- I'm ok.... thanks for all of your fms and concerns!!

Have a great time in Vegas. You deserve it.

NPbride Posted:

Re: Re: annulment papers- I'm ok.... thanks for all of your fms and concerns!!

You deserve to have lots of fun and win big in Vegas!
The Original 2nd-time-around Posted:

Re: Re: annulment papers- I'm ok.... thanks for all of your fms and concerns!!

I'm sure this has been so tough for you but it absolutely seems like you did the right thing.
I hope you have a WONDERFUL time in Vegas

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