how did you girls choose your readers? And why did you pick who you did?
I think with a ceremony you have 2 readers...is this correct? I havent met with the father yet.
AngnShaun
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we only have one picked so far... (the other two Shaun is supposed to pick)
i picked her because she is the closest person to me thats not technically family... i do call her my cousin though... and actually the only reason i didnt ask her to be in my BP was because i was afraid to insult her older sister who is actually the same age as me and was my best friend growing up... (we grew apart and havent spoken in a long time)....
scatteredx12
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We only had one, and we chose DH's 14 year old cousin. We had her sister as the FG and her brother was a GM so we wanted to include her in some way, and she looks up to DH so much and adores him, so she was really excited when we asked her to read a small passage.
Jtruran
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We have three (prayer of the faithful you can have a reader as well). I chose both my cousins b/c I wasn't able to put them in the bridal party and FH's Aunt b/c it's his only one...
Future Mrs H
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I just picked my 2 brothers. We arent haveing a BP so this was my way of incorporating them into it
MrsSoto
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im not having a catholic mass, im jewish, hes catholic, were having what we consider a 'ceremony' in a very liberal church to sum it up and we couldve done 1 or 2 readings or none if we wanted.
i definately had 1 person who meant a lot to me througout my life that i wanted as a reader. (my bffs mom) and then i asked fh if there was anyone who meant a lot to him besides his mom who he would want to read and also isnt part of the bridal party. he said he really didnt and if i had someone else, i should choose them instead of him picking someone just for the helll of it. so i chose another person (older) who obviously isnt in the bridal party but has been there for me and is special to me.
MrsS2be
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Our 2 readers are FH's 2 sisters...it worked out well having them involved in some way since we're having a small BP.
Roccosgirl
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WE have 2 readers and a Prayer of the Faithful. My sister (MOH) and FH brother (BM) will be doing 2 readings. Another good friend of mine not in the bridal party will be doing the Prayer of the Faithful.
MrsL2010
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we have my 2 cousins doing readings, i couldn't include them in the bridal party, but i wanted them involved. we have FH's aunt doing prayer of the faithful because he insisted that we find someone from his side, although it wasnt that easy to do
20mrsc10
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im having my aunt do one-i grew up in the same room as her, and i wanted her to be part of my day
Clover23
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2 readers for a catholic mass if that's what ur having.
we chose the people closest to us that aren't a part of the wedding otherwise.
my godmother his father (parents are divorced)
DaniandKen2010
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We are having a ceremony but had to chose 3 readers. We chose my 2 baby (21 and 23yrs old cousins) and his cousin. We are really close to them.
TheFutureMrsPM
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We can have 3 (ceremony) but we are only picking 2. My Godfather and FHs Godmother....bc they are our God parent / Aunt and Uncle.
StaceyWill
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We had to pick two, so I chose my SIL and FH chose his cousin
