Reading the fine print

Hi Ann Marie, I hear your irritation and can understand but this is one of those situations that it might be worth asking yourself "How important is it?" I mean, if you are happy with the DJ's work and price and in reality you are planning on feeding him, then why cause yourself the aggravation of looking for a new DJ? Sometimes the principle isn't worth fighting for because of the ramifications. It's a personal choice though, I agree the boldness of the wording is a bit ballsy but a hungry DJ isn't necessarily a happy DJ, which in reality doesn't necessarily lead to a happy bride & groom. Good luck. -Elizabeth

When we were thinking of having my four nephews in the wedding party, we decided on having all the boys in matching black pants, shoes, vests, and ties, with white shirts. This way, the money spent was for an outfit they could keep...and they would all be uniform and COMFORTABLE...of course, it was a notch down in formality.

Ann-Marie,

We had this same issue We spoke with our band(9 people) and they agreed to eat at the cocktail hour and viennese hour This has been a hot topic on the board before and it is all a matter of personal preference Our band was not offended in the least We couldn't see paying over $1000 to feed them plus the fee and their tip Good luck with whatever you decide

hey rachel! thanks so much for recommending susan. i spoke with her today and we are meeting with her next tuesday to go over all our options!! she seems really nice. thanks again! -leighann

I noticed groom's cakes are very popular in the South.