Really angry (vent...long)
I never see my father so I decided to do to my parents house after work today on his day off. Everthing is fine when I get there we're talking, laughing, etc. When my mother gets home, I'm still there and they start talking about financial issues between the two of them.
My father then turns to me and says that I should be more involved in bills at home (my husband pays the bills). He then goes on to say that I never have money in my pocket (not true), that my husband can spend his money eating 5 meals a day (basically calling him fat), telling me that I never have anything in our refrigerator ( I really do but my mother likes to cook me food and give it to me) and that we're going to be living in our apartment forever if we 'keep up our spending'.
Of course when I get angry I get upset and I started crying. I got up and said, 'You shouldn't be talking about things you don't know anything about'. I got up, took my coat and went for the door. My mother was saying the whole time 'I don't want you to upset her, she's pregnant!' As I'm leaving, my mother is yelling to me...think of what you're doing to me!!
I though of yelling back to her...YOU?!?! Why don't you tell your husband to mind his business! I'm very upset right now. I really don't know what to day to them or do.
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My father then turns to me and says that I should be more involved in bills at home (my husband pays the bills). He then goes on to say that I never have money in my pocket (not true), that my husband can spend his money eating 5 meals a day (basically calling him fat), telling me that I never have anything in our refrigerator ( I really do but my mother likes to cook me food and give it to me) and that we're going to be living in our apartment forever if we 'keep up our spending'.
Of course when I get angry I get upset and I started crying. I got up and said, 'You shouldn't be talking about things you don't know anything about'. I got up, took my coat and went for the door. My mother was saying the whole time 'I don't want you to upset her, she's pregnant!' As I'm leaving, my mother is yelling to me...think of what you're doing to me!!
I though of yelling back to her...YOU?!?! Why don't you tell your husband to mind his business! I'm very upset right now. I really don't know what to day to them or do.
