Oh my gosh I very depressed right now. I think I'm pregnant. I have not gone to the doctor yet, I'm going tomorrow, but I can feel it. Really i feel something in my abdomen. It's really scary everytime I touch the little 'ball' that I feel it moves. So i'm guessing i'm like 4 months pregnant. Hopefully i'm wrong, but i need some advice. My dad is going to freak and so is my mom. and my wedding is not until december and I have everything ready. everything. Please give me some advice on how to handle it all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AeroJenn
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to be honest, i dont think you would feel a fetus moving in your belly at only 4 months. I could be wrong, so dont quote me on it....but i really dont think you would feel it move at that early.
It could be something else -- like a small cyst or something. Go get checked by a doctor. I've had at least 3 or 4 times where I just 'knew' i was pregnant and i was completely wrong.
nyprncs23
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you don't feel movement of a fetus until the 20th week and at that time it will feel like flutters
B22
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wait... have you've been getting a period at all?
You usually start feeling the baby around 4months but only from the inside.. like your stomach growling...
kahlua716
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HAve you taken a pregnancy test? i agree with the other girls..you could have a cyst. Go to the doctor ASAP!!
ant n tilde
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i 'knew' i was pregnant a bunch of times - and I never was
some women can even get pregnancy symptoms by THINKING they are pregnant ( even getting a belly!)
dont freak until you know for sure!
Colette
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Hi hon, at this point there's a 50/50 chance, right? If you're not - there's no problem (many of us have been irregular; wedding planning can make your hormones WACKO).. In the past I've had many 'scares' that turned out to be nothing!!!
And Sweetie, if you ARE, please take a few deep breaths, talk to FH FIRST, and try not to be stressed out!
One thing at a time, first confirm the situation... after that, your health comes FIRST, everything else second. Your parents LOVE you and will love you NO MATTER WHAT, please know that!!
Good luck at the doctor tomorrow and please let us know how it goes!
PaddysGirl15
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have you taken a pregnancy test- you can get them in CVS or any other drug store.
portjeffbride
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I agree with Colette.....
If you're pregnant, it's not anything for your family to be upset about. You're engaged, about to be married..... If anything, FH and your family should be happy!
This doesn't affect the wedding much either.... you would only have to be careful about your gown.
But you don't know you're definitely pregnant... Just see the Dr.
either way, you can count on the LIW girls for support
ds319
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I am 18 weeks pg now and I still don't feel it move from the outside. I would definitely go to your doctor to be sure. Good luck.
