I guess its about that time where I go into depression mode. As of yesterday I officially started feeling extremely depressed and literally in pain. FH and I have been looking for an apt and that has been stressful by itself. Then yesterday I had a fight with one of my bms (FSIL) as well as her bf who is walking with her...who is also my cousin...
And i'm super stressed about paying for stuff. I'm really afraid right now and dont know if we are going to be able to pay everything off in 2 mos.
The thing that is bothering me the most was the fight though. i dont understand why ppl are so stupid sometimes. And they dont even try to understand that I might be stressed and this whole wedding isnt about them!
I'm not going to get into detail but thanks for listening while I vent
StaceyWill
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MisyMiss32
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Hang in there darling! I've been there and although things seem bleek I promise you it will ge better.
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christine2010
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Thats how I felt when we had 2 months to go, but seriously it all does work out. 2 months ago was such a mess. FH & I arguing all the time, my sister & I fighting non-stop. Countless fights over money & some how with only 9 days before the big day all the pieces are falling into place.
Good Luck
soontobecruz
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We all have those days/weeks,and a months sweetie! Hang in there and when I am down just think of the good stuff. You are marrying your BFF and after the most exciting and stressful day of your life you go away with him and no one else to just let it all go and have a great HM
GiannisWifey
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im really sorry hun! I am sure everything will work out
MayBride2010
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Hang in there - it will all work out...somehow (thats at least what I am telling myself). You def aren't alone!
mariedsgn
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you will get through it
Future Mrs H
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jackieee
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awww I'm sorry. :(
I hope things get better for you soon and you start to feel better.
Remember the big picture...you are marrying your best friend and love of your life!
FutureCap
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we all understand the stress... but honestly until I had to plan my own wedding I had no idea how much $$ was to be paid and how hard it would be. I think its ones of those things that people who haven't been through just don't get.
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MrsC2010
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hang in there hun
soonT0beMrsD
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i feel your pain. all of this stress has been giving me anxiety and panic attacks for the first time in my life, i hate it. just hang in there and it will all work out
AwaitingAugust
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don't worry - somehow, it'll work out in the end
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Ugh, I SO feel you. I have had endless arguements lately and I've been really afraid that we wouldn't be able to pay for everything. Now we've discussed our savings plan and I think we've got it figured out, but it's still nerve wracking. I'm going to be nervous until we pay off every last vendor. Try not to worry, just try to talk it out with FH about the money and FSIL.
