Really flustered and I think I almost had

I think I almost had a panic attack.
I was adding up our bills left to pay for the wedding and now with all these people coming I realized that we wont have our safety net in the bank anymore.

So I was at the computer and started breathing really fast and it felt like i couldnt catch my breath...and I got really dizzy..FH is scared and I guess so am. I thought this was sopposed to be fun..all I keep thinking are that all the invites arnt here yet. I dont know if I am gonna make it through the next 6 weeks.

I mean we have like 10K left in savings...I am so scared of after the wedding. Is any one else thinking that spending all this money was not worth the stress.

Ok close your eyes..... take deep breaths and count to ten. Relax.
In the morning try to get in touch with your hall and explain the situation, see if they can work with you at all... it might mean that you take away a few extras, maybe limit the bar to just beer and wine, maybe you don't have a Vienese hour.

It will all work out and you will have a beautiful day.

Sweetie, I'm so sorry, this *is* really stressful, but you'll have a beautiful wedding, you really will. Could you work with any of your vendors to get your prices lowered with them? Maybe ask your photographer if you can just have the proofs now and you'll make your album later, or tone down something else.

Good luck!

Annissa, I'm sorry you're getting so stressed over the planning, but everything will work out beautifully!!! You're almost there. If you need something to calm you down, speak to your doctor. I know SO MANY brides who needed a little 'something' to take to calm them down before the big day. You're not alone. When you feel a panic attack coming on, take deep breaths and hold them for 10 seconds. Hang in there...the stress is almost over with!

Weddings are so overwhelming. There are just so many little details to think about... but everything comes together in the end! You are going to have a great day! Try to give yourself a little bit of alone time for relaxation...

Thanks to each of you.

I havent been feeling well for a little while. Shoot for the past few weeks even months little symptoms of something have happened.

I mena we have the money for the vendors..but I think since i am the main one planning, working full time and being mommy to a 3 year old going 33...I think i may have to take a step back.

Thanks for listening. Its nice to have others who understand what I am going through

maybe you can delagate some chores to one of the bridesmaid or your mom or even your dh so you can have a little breather. it seems stressful now that your spending all the money but when your day comes and everything is just like you pictured and people are coming up to you and telling how there such a wonderful and everything is beautiful all your doubts will disapear. take a nice long bath with candles or go and get a facial.. you deserve somne you time