REALLY NEED ADVICE PLEASE!!

btrflygrl Posted: Jan 20, 2004 03:06 PM

REALLY NEED ADVICE PLEASE!!

I did not invite my entire job, despite the fact that we are all close...it would have been 60+ more people....one lady is a BM for me and there is one other person I'd LOVE to have, but did not invite for fear of it leaking out. She just asked the BM lady when my shower is and where her invite is....do I invite her because we are so close? I only have 45 days left and my shower is on the 31st, so my BM friend NEEDS to know in order to tell my MOH that someone new is coming!!!

Jordan Posted: Jan 20, 2004 03:09 PM

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Is she invited to the wedding?

btrflygrl Posted: Jan 20, 2004 03:12 PM

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I'm trying to figure out if I SHOULD invite her to the WEDDING!!

Marcela1654 Posted: Jan 20, 2004 03:12 PM

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I don't think you should invite her to the shower if you're not inviting her to the wedding.
If you invite her to the shower, she's going to think she's invited to the wedding. I know I would be upset if I were invited to a bridal shower and not the wedding.

ETA:Just saw your new post, yes if you are that close to her, you should invite her to the bridal shower and wedding.

Donna Posted: Jan 20, 2004 03:13 PM

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I think that the only women invited to your shower should be women invited to the wedding.

nferrandi Posted: Jan 20, 2004 03:15 PM

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If you're close with this work friend, than you should just pull her aside and tell her that you would love for her to be a part of your wedding, but for financial reasons you can't invite the entire office, so you would appreciate her keeping details about your wedding to herself.

franksbride Posted: Jan 20, 2004 03:16 PM

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Do not invite her to the shower if she is not invited to the wedding.

If you must invite her to the wedding then do so...don't worry about the other work people.