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really need some happy news

Bree71584 Posted:

really need some happy news

i apologie in advance this is a long one

ok so first off im not one to vent but good god today as just been one of those days!! when it rains it pours!! literally

ok well yesterday my mom was in car accident she was rear-ended by a tractor trailer so that was really scary but luckily it was in bad traffic so no one was going fast and shes completley fine just without a car for now

tonight me and FH were set to go on a special date to celebrate our anniversary that was Feb 7th - just a little backstory my FH is a merchant marine and works out of houston right now so i dont get to see him very often he works on the boat for 30 days straight then hes home for 15 and then back to the boat. well he was supposed to come home last night but stayed an extra day in houston because he interviewed this morning for an offshore position (which would mean a permanent move to houston for us but i'd have him off the boat and home every night so while the move is bittersweet its well worth it) so anyway his flight was supposed to come in at 6 and we have front row tickets to go see Rascall Flatts tonight to Nassau Coliseum. well because of todays rain his flight was delayed 2 hours, he wont be in NY till 8 and the concert starts at 7:30 so by the time i picked him up and we got to the show it would be ending. Plus there was a major eff up at work and im probably gonna be working till god knows when tonight. so FH will probably have to pay for a cab from laguardia to syosset (like we can afford that?). The only upside is that my dad works right by my office so on his lunch break he came by and picked up the tickets from me i'd rather my parents enjoy the concert than let the tckts go to waste.

i know there are bigger things to be sad about and life could always be way worse and its just a concert but im just sad this job of FH's has made him miss christmas, new years, our anniversary and valentines day this year alone (not to mention on this trip home instead of getting his standard 15 days hes only getting 9 because their making him go to captain's conference in texas for 6 days!!) i just miss him so much i just wish he would hurry up and get here already its just getting so tough without him. im sorry for the vent ladies just had to get it off my chest so i didnt start crying in my cube.

thanks for listening
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Awww lady.. I'm sorry to hear that... Don't worry your FH will be with you tonight. Turn off your phones and TVs and just spend time with each other...

dctead Posted:

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Aw... I'm sorry you're missing the concert...and I'm glad that your mom is OK... Some crappy things going on !!

Just try to focus on the fact that you will see him in a few hours....and you'll have him for a few days...and pray that he gets the off boat Job!!
spdy540 Posted:

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Im sorry girly I do hope your night gets better and fh gets to you soon. Dont worry about venting thats what we are here for
smilesjc81 Posted:

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awww vent away, sorry things are sucky,

hope they get brighter, hopefully skipping the concert means you'll have energy to roll in the sheets instead wink wink

hope you get to enjoy all the time you have together, have a fantastic weekend!
lisam1113 Posted:

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Awww I'm sorryyy!!! Although your missing the concert but you'll have FH tonight with you!! & at least the tickets didn't go to waste & you'll get to hear some of it from your parents (hope there bringing a camera! ..Also I hope he gets the job so you could see him right away as he's out of work! & I agree with one of the above posts, turn your phones off & enjoy each other!!
Bree71584 Posted:

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thanks laides you are all so sweet and have made me feel better. and trust me there will definitley be some rolling in the hay tonight! its been 31 days after all (not that im counting ) a girl can only wait so long!
jovigirl414 Posted:

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adelz Posted:

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That really stinks - but I hope things start turning for the better for you very soon! I'm glad to hear your mom is okay and thank goodness it wasn't any worst, and hope your FH gets home quickly to you tonight! :)

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