I don't know why... but I'm getting married in 40 days and I just feel like crying for no reason.
Im getting Married
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I'm sure it is nerves..but soon you will get to see all of your work come together
wiggleit28
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I think it's totally understandable!!! You've put a lot of work into this day and of course you want it to be perfect. It is all going to work out and you will have the best day of your life!!!
Nina1010
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Same here... less than 40 and still feel like I am missing something. Hoping it will pass... just don't want to stress so close to the big day.
LadyDuda81509
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it gets crazy toward then end!! for me the last 2 weeks were horrible!! but it will be worth it all in the end!!
Dramatica
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nerves, stress I'm sure
wedding_girl
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Dont' worry, everything will work out
rendel
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No, don't cry!!!!!
twein28
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I am a week after you! I feel your pain! Actually, I had so much anxiety in March that I don't think my body will allow me to have anymore at the moment! It kind of became indifferent even though I have a million things to get done in over a month! Just keep making lists and checking off accomplishments! Lists help big time! I have a list of what I need to bring with me teh day of and that helps keep me sane.
ikcin98
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I feel exactly the same way and I'm may 1st - and I just started planning a month and half ago-I feel like I'm going to lose it - hang in there - we'll get everything done
adelya21
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like everyone said its normal!!! fell free to vent all you want we are all here for ya
Taunita
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Have you seen the episode of Everybody Loves Raymond where Debora just takes out the time to sit on her couch and just cry... hahaha just let it all out- the nerves.. the stress & just because... heck, I sometimes get emotional seeing platinum weddings cuz i'm all like look at the ring bearer and the oohs and ahhs and today at easter mass I was overjoyed and tearing like a bafoon at the back of the church cuz in almost a year I'm going to be up there... sooo its completley normal. Becoming someones wife in 40 days is a big deal!!! We are all here to catch the tears of venting ranting and raving and above all joy!!!
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summerbride20
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Around 130 days and I started freaking out... at least you got to 40 days before breaking down!!
nanpink
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ahhh.....wedding stress & nerves....take it one day at a time. Remember, it's an exciting time!!!
bigsal
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I actually just started randomly crying on Saturday...nerves and stress. I just spent Sunday doing nothing wedding related and took a break from everything. Hang in there
twein28
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someone told me once to spend an hour a day planning or doing something wedding related so it doesnt seem overwhelming.
Moonmist09
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its normal to feel anxious about everything that is going on. take a deep breathe and relax. everything will work out perfectly
halfbaked
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OMG! I swear I felt like that every day last week!! I went to my mom's house this weekend and went through all of the wedding bins we have and organized everything. I feel so much better about it now! Don't worry, it'll all come together!
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julesrbf
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I was a raw nerve for the last two months before my wedding ... crying at the drop of a hat ... everything! I was so emotional! But once the day came I was so thrilled I hardly shed one tear!