really really pissed i can't even breathe right now

StaceYums81 Posted: Jan 29, 2010 10:55 PM

really really pissed i can't even breathe right now

people are going to just decide that they are coming to our wedding 2 weeks before hand??? I'm sorry but these people are not going to have anywhere to sit. I've already sent my count to the florist and can not add anymore tables. I don't know what to do - I don't know how people can act like this....

lissylissa Posted: Jan 29, 2010 10:59 PM

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People really are so horrible sometimes! they have no consideration! im so sorry!

springsandra Posted: Jan 29, 2010 10:59 PM

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So sorry you're going through this!!!!!

Fortunately, you don't have to give your hall the final seating plan until a few days before the wedding, so you should be able to add a few people to a table here or there still. You could also still get some cancellations (we had 2 cancellations from a death in a friend's family the week before the wedding, and one person get into a car accident on the way to the wedding and didn't show).

Are your tables a range of people at them? Ours could be anywhere from 8 - 12, so that left a lot of flexibility.

You'll figure it out and it'll all be wonderful!!! Don't stresss!!!!!!!!!

heathery72 Posted: Jan 29, 2010 10:59 PM

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Oh that's terrible. I wish I could help you!

Bride825 Posted: Jan 29, 2010 11:00 PM

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SORRY
I dont understand...they told you they werent coming and then took it back and said they were???

nicopico13 Posted: Jan 29, 2010 11:21 PM

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unfortunately you will have a handful of people who dont feel the need to send back the rsvp or tell you they are coming until the last minute....it is really frustrating!

StaceYums81 Posted: Jan 29, 2010 11:24 PM

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Its all my stupid FH's fault
I have been asking him for weeks to call these people on the PHONE!! and find out what the hell is going on - all he does is sit there on his fukkin as$ - just like he waited till the last day to get his tux measured. I am really more Mad at him then these people

then he gets mad at me for texting his cousin to find out if she talked to them about who's coming etc just to find out if she knew. He's embarressed cause he dropped the ball...

Kiki1103 Posted: Jan 29, 2010 11:26 PM

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Take a deep breath, people are very inconsiderate

SoontobeGallagher Posted: Jan 29, 2010 11:35 PM

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I'm sorry this is happening to you. Just breathe. You will get through this. Your almost there!

daniellek730 Posted: Jan 29, 2010 11:48 PM

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At least you have people coming!!

I'm so sorry people are aggravating you. It's like you dont have enough to worry and stress about as it is. You can just tell them that you did your final count 2 weeks ago and that's that.

Nina1010 Posted: Jan 29, 2010 11:54 PM

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FallBride2010 Posted: Jan 30, 2010 12:16 AM

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It will all work out. I cant imagine how stressed you are, but try to take it all in stride : )

joctorre Posted: Jan 30, 2010 12:21 AM

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So sorry. That is so frustrating. At least FH knows that he messed up. Don't take his getting mad at you personally.... he's mad at himself....

Sit back and try to enjoy the fact that you will be AT your wedding in two weeks (you have a place to sit, so try not to stress about the others!!)

GL

BriansWifey Posted: Jan 30, 2010 12:36 AM

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that is sooo inconsiderate of people. they should know that a response date means RESPOND BY THAT DATEEEE!!!!!!!!
ughh im sorry ure going thru this. how r u gonna tell em they cant come?

Clover23 Posted: Jan 30, 2010 08:32 AM

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I'm so sorry but I promise it will all work out. Deep breaths.

Noelsgirl Posted: Jan 30, 2010 09:10 AM

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Damn them!!!! They must think that the rsvp date was a joke!!!! Hellooo, it's a catered event you people!!! I hate indecisive people!!!
I feel your pain Satcey!!!