REALLY STUPID fights youve had with girlfriends....

Looking back arent there fights you had with girlfriends where you were like I CANT BELIEVE WE'RE FIGHTING OVER THIS ???
Or Were there fights that hurt or ended your friendships that were for such STUPID reasons ???
Did you feel betrayed or hurt and they just DIDNT SEE your point of view ?? GIRLS can fight over of the silliest things... Lets get eachothers opinions, and see who 'wins' this contest, LOL.

(Should I NOT share one here, like SOME girls do ?? )

Well you know I have to babble, so here's mine. I'll make it quick cuz im EXHUASTED !!!

A friend of mine had to go visit one of her aunts upstate. She had to make a day out of it since it was a far drive. I was working full time and she knew that I chose my 'sick days' wisely. KNOCK ON WOOD, I rarely get sick, and if I do and take a sick day, I still have to make something productive of my day.

Well she asked me if I wanted to come to keep her company, and 'hang out', her aunt was like 25 yrs older than us, and her kid cousins were there, so she wanted a friend to hang out with as she visited for the day (yep, weird already, LOL).
So I took a cherished precious sick day and went.
As we went over the bridge she goes 'do you have $3.50 ?' and I looked in my bag, and said 'I just have a $20' and she responds 'well then you'll get the way back on the bridge' I ALMOST FELL OVER !!! I kinda laughed thinking she was kidding !
THEN we get to her aunts house, and she goes 'anna, me and sally (cousin) are going to buy aunt mary and birthday cake, its her birthday today, are you chipping in ???' (AGAIN, I almost fell over !!! ) I just said something like 'Sure, get money out of my bag' - we were all in a swimming pool and she was on her way to the store. But she never went in my bag. Already thinking these 2 things were a slap in the face to me, and completely RUDE and pathetic of her, here we are on the way home, (we had lunch OUT that day, and each bought our own lunches, which was perfectly fine) well she goes 'well are you gonna give me the $3.50 or are you gonna stiff me ????'
Well, I almost ripped her head off. I just threw money at her saying 'YOU REALLY WANT IT ? YOU ARE REALLY ASKING ME FOR 3 DOLLARS AND FIFTY CENTS ??? I JUST TOOK A DAY OFF FROM WORK !!!...etc etc
I couldnt beleive that this was one of my closest friends and here she was expecting me to pay half the tolls and chip in for a cake for an aunt of hers that I had nothing to do with, and here I took a sick day, and she completely made me feel like I had a free ride at Great Adventure or something!!!!! I could have just taken my day off and went to the beach and had less headache !!

I was SOO FLOORED that we didnt speak for quite some time. Id say a good 2 years.
We are very similar in personalityTELL IT LIKE IT IS, so the both of us yelling at eachother didnt end too well.

We're now speaking again. She lives in another state. I called her years later, and we mentioned that day joking around, and we still both have the attitude like 'DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED' and we each think that WE are right...
Anyway, shes a good person, and we have so many more good memories that outweigh this one PATHETIC one....

IS THAT BAD ? DID I OVER-REACT ???

Gnite...
Asta manyana !

I had 2 fights with friends that were so dumb and shouldnt have even happened.

I had a fight a long time ago with a very good friend who I regret fighting with. She moved and we never spoke again.

It was the most stupidest thing. She was dating this guy and she would make plans with me then cancel the minute he wanted to do something. After a while I started to feel like our friendship meant nothing and I told her I a wasnt asking her to choose between the 2 of us, but her actions were really starting to hurt me. I think she felt I was making her choose and she said I was jealous and that I wasnt being a good friend to her.

So we never spoke again. The guy and her broke up and then she moved upstate and her and I never reconciled.

Another BIG fight I had with a guy in HS which P!$$es me off because it was something that shouldn't have happened. (I know you said girlfriend but this fight still really urks me)

He and I had been friends for at least 10 years. We lived 2 blocks from each other and were pretty close in our friendship. Well he started dating my rival and because her and I didnt get along she made him choose. When he wasnt with her he thought it was great that he and I were friends and had class together and hung out but the minute she was around i was nothing to him. I didnt exist. I wasnt having it and told him if you cant be my friend with her then he isnt worth being my friend and when she breaks his heart dont expect me to be there and help him put it back together.

They eventually got married and are happily ever after and he and I havent spoken since HS.

hmmmm I am noticing a trend with my friends and the people they date.....

they were never stupid I was always right

Wacky - I think it counts as a stupid fight if just your friend was being stupid.

I can't believe that your friend asked you to pay for one of the tolls when she asked you to keep her company to visit her aunt!!??! That would have ****ed me off too.

Yes my friend and i had known each other a year and then we stopped talkong when she started dating a guy i had dated but it wasn b/c I wanted him back its a long story but lets just say it was stupid High School stuff that went on and caued us to fight. Anyway once they broke up (dated for like 9 months) we became friends again and now she is my best friend and is my MOH!! We look back and laugh at the whole situation. We have like these silly inside jokes about the situation that other people dont get they are like why talk about something that happend 12 years ago but they just dont get it. I guess its true a fight can actually bring people closer together!!

I was the first of my friends to get my license, so of course I was designated driver. One friend I would pick her up from work, drive her wherever she wanted to go and NEVER asked for a dime. When she finally got her license she would drive every once and a while, one day I asked her to take me to a store a few miles from where I lived, fine she took me, on the way back my Mother beeped me and asked me to pick something up from the Salumeria (something you couldnt get at a regular deli) so I said Dawn can you just take me to A&S, she flipped out and starting screaming at me I'm not your F*in chauffer, you better give me gas money...on and on and on I was like Excuse me but who the f was your frigin chauffer for 2 years? Who came out at 2 in the morning to pick your punk a$$ up and you have nerve to yell at me? At the stop light I jumped out of the car and walked the 2 miles home.

She later said she was sorry (about a month later). needless to say she is a BM in my wedding lol