ladies i need ur supposrt - through out all this wedding planning.. FH and i have talked about EVERY single thing - i did not spend any money without talking to him first.. and NOW as it comes to the final 10 days.. we look at our acct and see that the money is just slowly going away as we are paying vendors and so forth.. so last night i tell him that we have to pick up the place cards and he asks how much is that i tell him and he flips out.. telling me that i spend money like its going out of style.. ummm i didnt spend a F-ING $1 without talking to him.. and now thats its crunch time its MY FAULT we are running out of money!!!!! what the F!!!!! sorry ladies just really annoyed!!!!!!
diva7531
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AW , sometimes we forget that our FH's get stressed planning too, but he should not take it out on you. Hopefully you guys can talk this out!
rkl1130
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I'm so sorry--it's probably the stress of planning that made him do that.
Don't worry.
NY031978
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10 days away....its all just STRESS! Dont worry....we all go through it!!! I was in the same boat but some how we did it and pulled through! Good luck!
zenergy47
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totally - its funny his mom called him bridzilla last night..LOL he is stressed and i am totally chill ughhh!!!!!
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I totally understand, I think it really ***** that we have this once in a lifetime event and it gets ruined because of money! It is the root of all evil as they say. FH and I have pretty much ONLY fought about money issues this whole time....if we were rich it would of went so much smoother. Don't worry though in the end you will have a great day and that will be in the past.
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Posted by zenergy47
totally - its funny his mom called him bridzilla last night..LOL he is stressed and i am totally chill ughhh!!!!!
I flip out over stupid things sometimes because i'm stressed about something else. Don't get upset, I'm sure he didn't mean to take it out on you.
p.s.- I call my FH Groomzilla sometimes
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he's just stressed, don;t take it to heart. You will get $ from people as gifts and it'll all be okay. Hang in there
Cpt2007
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I'm sure he's just stressed. You will probably get an apology from him shortly! Don't worry, it will be fine!
Future Mrs.
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omg....totally know how you feel. The last 10 days are the worst......the money just has no meaning b/c it is sooooo stressful and there is still so much to be done. I am sure that he was stressed out.....that is upsetting for you though, especially b/c you have been working SO HARD. this last stretch of 10 days is very stressfull......I know how you feel.
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with 10 days left, it is stress for both of you. Hang in there, I am sure he is just really stressed.
magbride
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Awww... I'm sure it's just nerves/stress. FH gets in a money mood like that every now and then, but it passes. I remind him of all the areas we saved $. Don't worry, the day of he'll be so happy, he won't even think about the price of those place cards....or anything else for that matter.
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Roed522
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Don't let it get to you, I know it's easier said than done but in the end it's just money. I swear as happy as it can make people sometime, it also can be the root of all evil. I think it it should be written into law that every couple that pays taxes and is getting married automatically gets $10,000 6 months before their wedding date. Wishful thinking huh. Well GL
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it's just the stress of the wedding and mostly the $
that causes fights between married couples more than any other topic....
i do the same thing with FH - I get overwhelmed by all the bills and sometimes nitpick over expenses...
cheer up - and enjoy that wedding in 10 days!
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awwww sorry babe... he might just be a little stressed & nervous tooooo
JassyandOscar
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I am sorry. I am sure FH didn't mean that. He is probably just as stressed as you are!!
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Dont worry hon. Money can always bring out the worst in people. I am sure that he didnt mean to take it out on you. The Stress about money can drive anyone over the edge. Try talking to him and telling him how you feel. My FH and I have gotten into a few tifs over money and having to buckle down. It's hard but it has to be done.
