Ok kind of a morbid question...but the recent news story makes me think. Can you ever really 100% trust someone?? Do you think that Leah Walsh or Lacy Peterson or any other victim deep down knew that her husband was not trustworthy in every way??
You see this happen too often...and sometimes its the wife murdering the husband (so i'm not just picking on men)...
I guess I don't know what I'm really asking, but it kinda makes me think. When is a bad temper too bad? When is gambling too much gambling? When is a lie big enough to be concerned about...??
stinenandy2010
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it really is a scary question - i mean did these guys just snap??? i think its one of those questions you will never know the answer too.
RitasEngaged
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Posted by stinenandy2010
it really is a scary question - i mean did these guys just snap??? i think its one of those questions you will never know the answer too.
i completely agree!!
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it really is a scary question - i mean did these guys just snap??? i think its one of those questions you will never know the answer too.
agreed...
is there a sign though that they can be capable of this? what would drive a person to be so angry to murder thier significant other?
DnT2010
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you will never know. all you can do it trust your own judgement
christophersgirl
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yea , i guess you never really know, but you probably also wouldn't be marrying the guy if you didn't trust him with your life either...
RedsBride
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I think these people that have committed the murders against their loved ones must have snapped but I think it was probably in them to be capable of something like that all along. They also must have some type of history of psychological problems or some type of disorder in my opinion. Leah Walsh's husband was also in the financial business as a mortgage broker I believe and maybe he was feeling the pressure and stress of work and a marriage that was failing. That's what I saw it as.
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Leah was married for 3 years and they were together for 7!! And he snapped! Thats crazyyy!! I guess FH could snap and kill me one day. I hope he dresses me up in something nice at least and doesn't leave me nude!
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I'm sure the cops were on to him the whole time...despite his efforts to throw them off...like abandoning the car, texting himself, leaving her nude (to look like a sex assault)...
I don't think my FH is all that clever either. He'd get caught in a heartbeat. And he's very handsome...they'd have a field day with him in prison!!!!!!!
MrsL2010
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my FH can't even lie with a straight face.
although i guess it's possible for anyone at any time to just snap.
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In all these cases the couples reported marital problem before the spouse went crazy ridiculous...
So, while I don't think you know if your husband/wife is capable of murder... You certainly know when something is 'OFF'
My advice to everyone (and hopefully they'll never need it) is to pay attention to those red flags.. 99.9999% of the time your instincts are right.
My FH is a pretty boy... and hates raising his voice to me, much less laying a hand on me to KILL ME. He'd feel guilty and confess in 1/2 a second if he ever went through with it.
