Reception hall pick for the bridal party

R we responsible for getting a service to bring all of the bridal party back to our house where they left there car from the reception hall?

Sorry, I'm just clueless I don't know if I need to hire another service

Thanks in advance.

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Posted by Fausha

R we responsible for getting a service to bring all of the bridal party back to our house where they left there car from the reception hall?

Sorry, I'm just clueless I don't know if I need to hire another service

Thanks in advance.

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No. They can have their friends or SOs or anyone else drive them back to your house to pick up their cars. Maybe they can even all coordinate on their own ahead of time and some of them can carpool there or just get dropped off. Not your worry.

The reason I'm asking one of my BM is giving me issues about a couple of things.

One: she said well who is taking us back to our cars. I said well your SO or maybe we can have a couple of people carpool or something. She had an issue with that.

Second: she said aren't you paying for our hair and makeup to get done. I said it depends on what I decide to give you guys as your gift. She's like I thought you would give us the hair , makeup, and jewelry.

I was so shocked over this! How could someone assume. I've been in a couple of wedding parties and I never assumed. Ya know!

So now I want your opinions to make sure I'm not overacting about this.

Thanks ladies!

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Posted by Fausha

The reason I'm asking one of my BM is giving me issues about a couple of things.

One: she said well who is taking us back to our cars. I said well your SO or maybe we can have a couple of people carpool or something. She had an issue with that.

Second: she said aren't you paying for our hair and makeup to get done. I said it depends on what I decide to give you guys as your gift. She's like I thought you would give us the hair , makeup, and jewelry.

I was so shocked over this! How could someone assume. I've been in a couple of wedding parties and I never assumed. Ya know!

So now I want your opinions to make sure I'm not overacting about this.

Thanks ladies!

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Um, she'll get as a gift whatever you decide to give her. She has no right to tell you what she should get. And no, bottom line is you are not responsible for her or any of your BP to get back to their cars. They are adults and can and should be able to figure this out for themselves. You (not you, but anyone agreeing to be a BM) should understand that along with being a BM they will have to buy a dress and do all of these BM things. If she can't afford to get her hair and m/u done and you choose not to give them this as a gift, then she just won't get her hair and m/u done, that's all. If you really really prefer them to get it done, then give her that as a gift. But she has no right to order you around.

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Posted by Fausha

The reason I'm asking one of my BM is giving me issues about a couple of things.

One: she said well who is taking us back to our cars. I said well your SO or maybe we can have a couple of people carpool or something. She had an issue with that.

Second: she said aren't you paying for our hair and makeup to get done. I said it depends on what I decide to give you guys as your gift. She's like I thought you would give us the hair , makeup, and jewelry.

I was so shocked over this! How could someone assume. I've been in a couple of wedding parties and I never assumed. Ya know!

So now I want your opinions to make sure I'm not overacting about this.

Thanks ladies!

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she's having a bridesmaidzilla moment...lol

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Posted by novia26

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Posted by Fausha

The reason I'm asking one of my BM is giving me issues about a couple of things.

One: she said well who is taking us back to our cars. I said well your SO or maybe we can have a couple of people carpool or something. She had an issue with that.

Second: she said aren't you paying for our hair and makeup to get done. I said it depends on what I decide to give you guys as your gift. She's like I thought you would give us the hair , makeup, and jewelry.

I was so shocked over this! How could someone assume. I've been in a couple of wedding parties and I never assumed. Ya know!

So now I want your opinions to make sure I'm not overacting about this.

Thanks ladies!

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she's having a bridesmaidzilla moment...lol

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So true! If she doesn't want to pay for her hair and makeup through your person that's her business. She'll have to find someplace else to do it then.

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Posted by Fausha

The reason I'm asking one of my BM is giving me issues about a couple of things.

One: she said well who is taking us back to our cars. I said well your SO or maybe we can have a couple of people carpool or something. She had an issue with that.

Second: she said aren't you paying for our hair and makeup to get done. I said it depends on what I decide to give you guys as your gift. She's like I thought you would give us the hair , makeup, and jewelry.

I was so shocked over this! How could someone assume. I've been in a couple of wedding parties and I never assumed. Ya know!

So now I want your opinions to make sure I'm not overacting about this.

Thanks ladies!

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Umm...is she married yet? I bet u can't wait until you have 2 b her BM! Payback's a b*tch! Some people r just so rude! U r definitely not over-reacting. I don't know what I would have said to her.

I would smack her. Seriously my bp all know they are doing their own transport and we are all car pooling before and after because we can't afford limos. We have a nice luxury van my bro is helping out for us all.

As for the makeup, hair and gift - she needs a reality check.