well my cousin has been amazing with all her ideas and help she did our std's and they came out great but she sent me a mock invite and i didn't love it fh said we should just order them because it is our invites ya know so what do you say to her??? she is wonderful and we really appreciate all her work i don't want to hurt her feelings..
bella1028
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thats tough, but i def would not let her do them if you will not be happy with them....maybe you can say something like i love what you did and i actually found ones at so and so and they are similar, and i just think it will be easier to order those???? IDK....I will keep thinking though
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Posted by bella1028
thats tough, but i def would not let her do them if you will not be happy with them....maybe you can say something like i love what you did and i actually found ones at so and so and they are similar, and i just think it will be easier to order those???? IDK....I will keep thinking though
thanks i agree with you!
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I had a similar situation myself. FH's step father is a printer and he offered to do our invitations for free. After I saw FBIL invitation from his wedding I didn't really care for them. I didn't want anything fancy but I at least wanted a border. All he can do for us is plain cardstock. Well FH agreed with me and we graciously said no thank you to his step dad. I felt weird at first but in the end this invitation is representing me/us and I want it to be something we loved.
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Posted by lyss0908
I had a similar situation myself. FH's step father is a printer and he offered to do our invitations for free. After I saw FBIL invitation from his wedding I didn't really care for them. I didn't want anything fancy but I at least wanted a border. All he can do for us is plain cardstock. Well FH agreed with me and we graciously said no thank you to his step dad. I felt weird at first but in the end this invitation is representing me/us and I want it to be something we loved.
thanks i really appreciate it and i am relieved you had a similar situation and you handled it very well
Cutechef729
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You could always ask to see another mock invite but if you don't love it and she doesn't get your style, you have to say something. The invitation isn't a huge deal but you want to love it and not settle. Good luck!!!
SoonToBeMrsScott
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its hard to turn some1 down but if you don't want her to do it let her know and order the invites you really want
