Do you think it's rude to not include the significant others of bridal party members and readers in the rehearsal dinner?
Just want to get some opinions
chris1082
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Do you think it's rude to not include the significant others of bridal party members and readers in the rehearsal dinner?
Just want to get some opinions
I personally am all about the +1, and would be a little upset if FH was invited somewhere where I wasn't.
Butttt I totally understand your position....EVERYTHING is so damn expensive! Oh, weddings
leesah85
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personally, i wouldnt do that, but it's your party and your budget!
FutureMrsPanuch
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nope not at all... most of the RD we have been to have just been ppl in the BP.
We hosted a little get together afterwards where significant others were invited to but not the dinner. It costs enough as it is!
chilly313
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I had definitely planned on inviting everyone's SO's to the rehearsal dinner. Then, the other night, FH and I were talking about the guest list for the RD and he thought differently - just bridal party and officiant. I still don't know what we are going to do, but I know I want to invite SO's
mybabylovesmoi
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our bridal party were all not from the L.I area so we invited their bf/gfs. didn't feel right about their sig other staying in the hotel without knowing the area kwim? but if everyone is local, i don't think it's a big deal not to invite their bf/gf. i can see some people being annoyed but they'll get over it
IrishAli
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I would think it is rude to be invited without my spouse
Buuuuut, this was part of the reason that we had a small wedding with minimal wedding party
spdy540
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I dont think so. I only had the bridal party, readers and parents. I have had to stay home and wasnt offended it the rehearsal dinner not the wedding.
itbroi805
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Not sure if I would think it's rude, but I would be upset if I was invited and my FH wasn't especially since ppl in your bp are close family and friends, not just some stranger guests you know? Personally I would do something more low-key like a BBQ or something to save enough money to be able to invites everyone's SOs.
HTH!
JTG4EVER
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Posted by LisaandRyan
Do you think it's rude to not include the significant others of bridal party members and readers in the rehearsal dinner?
Just want to get some opinions
I personally am all about the +1, and would be a little upset if FH was invited somewhere where I wasn't.
Butttt I totally understand your position....EVERYTHING is so damn expensive! Oh, weddings
I agree kinda....but i wouldn't stress. I dont think its a big deal not to invite them.
jck1173
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I think its always nice to invite plus one. I wouldn't like it if FH was invited to a rehearsal without me. But,are we talking about 10 extra people or just a couple? If its just a couple of people, I say just add them on. But, It's a lot more people, then I think everyone will understand if you don't... as it certainly adds up!!
Yankeeelove
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I invited everyone with their significant others, and also invited the readers. I would be upset if I couldn't bring my fh
