Rehearsal Dinner Question...

evewedsjc Posted: Sep 12, 2008 12:06 PM

Rehearsal Dinner Question...

I have 2 BM's that have serious boyfriends and are invited to the wedding. should they be included int he Rehearsal Dinner...

I hope there is a get out of jail for free card on this one...

agraydc Posted: Sep 12, 2008 12:08 PM

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i would invite them, JMO

thenewmrsharrington Posted: Sep 12, 2008 12:08 PM

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i know this isn't what you want to hear...but i think you should.....i've been invited to the rehearsal dinner of weddings that fh was in and vice versa before we were engaged.

Mrs Z To Be Posted: Sep 12, 2008 12:08 PM

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Sorry hon!! LOL. Invite em!

evewedsjc Posted: Sep 12, 2008 12:09 PM

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I figured that would be the answer....

Thanks my lovelies!!!

JennyAPH Posted: Sep 12, 2008 12:09 PM

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I would invite them but it wouldn't be the worst thing if you didnt.

When my cousin got married they said they wanted to keep it small and cheap and ONLY the bridal party and parents came. I didnt see anything wrong with that.

PegaLega Posted: Sep 12, 2008 12:10 PM

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I would invite them

08JulyBride Posted: Sep 12, 2008 12:14 PM

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All BP & their significant other's should be included

RockysGirl Posted: Sep 12, 2008 01:42 PM

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yeah, usually I think you ARE supposed to invite significant others of the Rehearsal Dinner.

I know for me, I'm inviting all of my bridal party as well as their husbands, wives, etc. And then I'm also having my immediate family and a one or two OOT cousins, aunts, and uncles I'm very close with. So it's gonna be kind of a big rehearsal dinner. Nothing too fancy though. It's the night before the wedding, so we're not going crazy.

bluekat16 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 01:45 PM

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Posted by 08JulyBride

All BP & their significant other's should be included

Ditto.

PeterNina Mom Posted: Sep 12, 2008 02:02 PM

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Sorry to disagree with everyone but you don't have to invite anyone who is not in the bridal party. The only partners that were invited were with people from out of town. If they are from your area then it is known that the rehearsal dinner is meant for the bridal party only.

evewedsjc Posted: Sep 12, 2008 02:09 PM

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Posted by PeterNina Mom

Sorry to disagree with everyone but you don't have to invite anyone who is not in the bridal party. The only partners that were invited were with people from out of town. If they are from your area then it is known that the rehearsal dinner is meant for the bridal party only.

They are actually both coming from OOT so I aguess it makes sense...

Thanks ladies!!

PeterNina Mom Posted: Sep 12, 2008 03:08 PM

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Posted by evewedsjc

Posted by PeterNina Mom

Sorry to disagree with everyone but you don't have to invite anyone who is not in the bridal party. The only partners that were invited were with people from out of town. If they are from your area then it is known that the rehearsal dinner is meant for the bridal party only.

They are actually both coming from OOT so I aguess it makes sense...

Thanks ladies!!

Okay then invite them. You can't leave OOTers alone, that would be rude.

gina409 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 04:28 PM

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i would invite them..imo

FallBride2010 Posted: Sep 12, 2008 10:48 PM

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Yes, def invite them with their date. I totally understand wanting to conserve to cut costs...but always remember that being in a bridal party is often a huge expense...especially for out of towners. I would be as accomodating as possible -- without breaking the bank : )