Rehersal dinner guests

we're trying ot make it as small as possible....
we're just inviting bp (NOT w/ guest)
parents
flower girl
readers

our parents
everyone in the BP including a guest
readers
FG & RB and their parents
grandparents
and one OOT aunt that is staying with FH's parents before the wedding

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Posted by rosatemp

the bp..our parents and thats it

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good im glad im not the only one not inviting guests....fmil didn't want to invite guests and I cant say nething bc im not paying for it

We are inviting MOH & boyfriend, BM & son (ring bearer) & wife, our parents and grandparents, ushers & wife (only 1 is bringing a guest of 3) and readers & guest. Also, My cousin is a reader and my aunt will be singing, so they are coming with my uncle.

We should have a total of 25-30 people

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Posted by ACD8

who do you invite to the RD? If I have flower girls, do I invite their parents and brother and sisters? Do I invite the wives and children of the GM or the significant others?

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we have a lot of people who are traveling from far away to be with us at our wedding (plus who are taking off from work on monday night for our sunday evening wedding, so we decided that we'll be inviting all out-of-towners.

between all of the wedding party & their significant others, our families, and the out of towners, we're over 70 people. not sure if they'll all make it, but we'll be inviting them.

in your case, not really sure what you're 'supposed' to do about inviting the flower girls' parents, but if you invite the flower girls, how can you not invite their parents?!?

and i would think that it would be very much appreciated if your wedding party was invited to the dinner with a guest.

our rd restaurant has a min of 20 but we have


parents - 4
wp+ dates = 18
Aunts = 3
Uncles =4
Cousins = 4
OOT = 10


Total = 43

eek.

BP
All parents
OOT guests
Readers

Yikes- because of our massive BP, we are looking at 50 ppl.